Welcome readers to the 107th issue of Mt. Olive Online!

By Cheryl Conway 

“A human being is defined by their capacity to teach others by displaying values of benevolence and humanitarism and therefore should be acknowledged” ~ a perfect quote on the cover of the pamphlet at the All-Veterans Memorial Appreciation Award Ceremony.

About 125 sponsors, supporters, friends and dignitaries attended the private dinner held on Veteran’s Day, Monday, Nov. 11, at 5:30 p.m. at the Musconetcong Lodge #42 F.&A. Masons in Budd Lake.  Organized and sponsored by AVM Founder Charlie Wood Uhrmann, other financial contributions toward the event were from the Musconetcong Lodge, Morris County American Legion, High Grade Beverage, Amery & Sara Vasso and Mt. Olive Twp. Attorney Fred Semrau.

The purpose of the dinner was a celebration and culmination of 16 years of creating and building the All-Veterans Memorial located at the entranceway at Turkey Brook Park in Budd Lake.

This was Uhrmann’s way of showing her “appreciation for everyone's unwavering support and kind contribution over the many years, and to bring everyone together to show that we continue to be One Nation Under God and that together we can do remarkable things,” she shares. 

“There were upwards of 32 organizations represented at the dinner,” shares Uhrmann. “I was humbled and blessed to see 100% of the AVM's original supporters and supporting organizations attend the awards event.” 

There were even some dignitaries who took the time to attend.
Former Mt. Olive Mayor David Scapicchio, “who greatly supported the AVV during his term of office,” says Uhrmann, was in attendance; along with Morris County Commissioner Tayfun Selen; and New Jersey American Legion Department Executive Commander Will Kramer. 

Two Gold Star Mothers who attended included: 
Charlene Cosgrove Bowie who lost her son, Christopher Cosgrove; and Netcong Councilwoman Dawn Roberts who lost her son Michael Kirspel Jr.; Christie Burkart, who lost her husband Amer Burkart while serving in Iraq, also attended.

Uhrmann had 13 tables set up for her guests, and handmade each tabletop with a formally folded American flag set over a paver, sand and dog tags to represent each of the 13 American soldiers killed in August 2021 outside of Kabul Airport in Afghanistan.  Her final phase at the AVM, Lest We Forget, is dedicated to these 13 soldiers and she planned to send each of their families the American flag to honor and remember them.

Uhrmann was so thankful to members of the Musconetcong Lodge #42 F. & A.M. for providing the lodge, assisting with the preparation of the event, serving the food and cleaning up. 

“They played a key role in the event,” she says. Mason Tim OConnor prepared the menu and food, which included salad, meatballs and sausage, chicken parmesan, ravioli, tortellini alfredo with broccoli, linguini with red sauce, garlic bread, wine, beer, chocolate chip cookies, chocolate cake, coffee and tea for dessert.

AVM Chair of the Board Amery Vasso, who travelled from Austin, Texas, gave the keynote address explaining how he got involved with the organization and the meaningful purpose that grew with each phase.

The premier of  The AVM Documentary was supposed to be the highlight of the evening but is still in the works.

The AVM’s Award Recognition portion of the program really became the focus point of the evening as Uhrmann called up individuals to recognize their support over the years.   

Cheryl Conway of Flanders, publisher of “Mt. Olive Online” and writer for “Mt. Olive Life” newspaper, received the AVM's Journalism Award “for her unwavering support and coverage of the AVM's outreach missions, the AVM's signature events (Memorial Day, Honorable Service and POW/MIA ceremonies) and each expansion with added monuments over the years,” shares Uhrmann. 

Home Depot received the AVM's Volunteerism Award “for their 15 years of support and annual cleanup of the AVM before the Memorial Day Ceremony and POW/MIA 24 Hour Vigils,” shares Uhrmann, “in addition to their financial contribution and volunteerism with the 14 Bollards at the GWOT Memorial Bridge, the Bollards that denote the AVM's Parking Lot, the NorthStar Seating and the POW/MIA stage.”
The Morris County American Legion received the Americanism Award “for their sponsorships of the POW/MIA Ascension Bell Tower and dog tags and the Warrior Obelisk,” says Uhrmann. “The MCAL has also provided unwavering support for the AVM's signature events.  The American Legion and the AVM share the same core values and pillars.”

Each recipient received a framed proclamation and award with sculpted hands.

“The hands represent a oneness and unity between the AVM and its recipient,” shares Uhrmann. “Those who received the award earned it by demonstrating unwavering support throughout the AVM's progress.”

They also received a framed 17"x11’’ AVM original proclamation forged with beautifully acrylic painted red poppies by a notable artist, Dominic Pangborn. A limited edition, each is registered with The Library of Congress. The red poppy is a nationally recognized symbol of sacrifice worn by Americans since World War I to honor those who served and died for their country.

As her final dedication, Uhrmann has decided on a bronze plaque to be placed at the AVM to recognize families of fallen soldiers. Uhrmann announced and dedicated the idea of the plaque at the dinner but will be placing it at the memorial once it is created and sponsored.
“The AVM was formally dedicated to the Families of Fallen Warriors,” shares Uhrmann. “Now that we have completed the final phase, we will add a bronze plaque denoting that the AVM was built on behalf of those who gave their full measure and the families who they left behind.”

Named NJ’s Premier Veterans’ Memorial

While Uhrmann remained humble in her 16 years of creating this one-of-a kind veterans memorial, she was surprisingly acknowledged at the dinner.   

Morris County Commissioner Tayfun Selen attended to her surprise to congratulate and present her and the AVM with an award of recognition. He stressed how Uhrmann created this memorial without any government funds, and it was all through 100% non-profit donations and her time and commitment.

In the framed award, the Morris County Board of County Commissioners denotes the AVM “as New Jersey’s premier veterans’ memorial. This distinguished site is known for its unique design and serene landscape, offering a lasting tribute to those who served in the U.S. Armed Forces. Morris County commends Ms. Uhrmann, the township of Mt. Olive, and all the dedicated donors, sponsors, and volunteers whose contributions brought this meaningful project to life over the course of two decades.”

Uhrmann and the AVM’s award was graciously signed by the Morris County Board of County Commissioners: Deputy Director Stephen Shaw, Director Christine Myers,  and Commissioners Doug Cabana, John Krickus, Thomas Mastangelo, Tayfun Selen and Deborah Smith.  

“Commissioner Selen's expression of appreciation overwhelmed me,” shares Uhrmann. “He was sincere and very generous with his accolades.  He is a remarkable speaker and representative for our county.  His presentation brought me to tears.”    

In the past, Uhrmann and the AVM have been recognized with honors by the Masons, and New Jersey American Legions for its contributions to veterans and the community.

According to New Jersey American Legion DEC Will Kramer, the AVM is also being recognized at the national level. He spoke about a National American Legion Commander Vincent J. Troiola who visited the AVM two years ago, and during his national tour he continues to talk about the AVM, its exceptionalism and has named it as one of N.J.’s landmarks.

“What an accomplishment by Charlie Wood Uhrmann in the creation of and the completion of the AVM!” shares Gold Star Mother Charlene Cosgrove-Bowie of Cedar Knolls. “All the people who were present at Monday night's ceremony is a testament to the amazing person she is and her unwavering mission to make the AVM a beautiful, very meaningful memorial.

“Everyone involved did so to help make the AVM a reality,” adds Cosgrove-Bowie. “They didn't have to but each and every one stepped up to do their part.  I was honored to be in the same room with so many thoughtful, generous people. I am honored the AVM acknowledges the sacrifice of so many and pays tribute to so many who might otherwise not be remembered.”

Louis Cicala, Worshipful Master of Musconetcong Lodge #42 Free and Accepted Masons was also honored to be a part of the appreciation dinner.

“My primary takeaway from the Appreciation Dinner is the support and commitment to the AVM and our Military Service,” he shares. “Seeing the various organizations and distinguished guests in attendance was very impressive as to the support from our community. My goal was to get Musconetcong Lodge and the members more involved with the community and this was a great event to show our support to Charlie Uhrmann and the All-Veterans Memorial.”

By Cheryl Conway

Many students learn about Veteran’s Day from books, websites and documentaries but students at Sandshore Elementary School in Budd Lake got to meet and hear a true story from a United States Marine veteran.

On Monday, Nov. 11, Sgt. Mohammed Jafar, a decorated U.S. Marine, spoke to 158 fourth and fifth graders at Sandshore Elementary School in Budd Lake. This was the first time a veteran will be speaking at the school. 

Sandshore Principal Jen Curry reached out to Charlie Uhrmann, founder of the All Veterans Memorial in Budd Lake, “in the hopes that she could connect the school with a veteran who would be willing to speak with students,” explains Curry.

“We have never had a speaker before,” she adds. “I have tremendous respect for the military and the sacrifice of those who serve and their families who support them. I have wanted to host a speaker on Veterans Day for several years but wasn't able to make it happen until this year.”

Uhrmann helped to prepare “an impactful, educational outline” for the speaker program.  

“Due to it being 'Veterans Day' and the age, I felt it would be best to touch on the life of a combat veteran,” explains Uhrmann. “The categories will be - the different branches of service, life in the military, leaving your family and serving in war.”

Curry’s hopes for this special presentation were to provide the students with an opportunity to meet a veteran to serve as a positive role model. 

“I hope that our students get an understanding of civic responsibility and awareness of the sacrifices others have made for our freedom, respect and gratitude for those who have served, a sense of empathy and a deeper understanding of diverse life experiences,” says Curry. “I hope our students find inspiration and even a role model in Sgt. Jafar in his demonstration of bravery, commitment and service to others.”

Her objective is also to provide her students with understanding of the importance of recognizing Veterans Day and honoring those who fought for their country.  

“It is important for students to know about the military and Veterans Day because it fosters respect and gratitude for those who have served, helping them appreciate the sacrifices made for their freedoms,” explains Curry.

The students really enjoyed the presentation.“Moe hit it out of the ballpark,” says Uhrmann. “The kids were really engaged!”

Agrees Curry, “It was a wonderful program.”

Meet Sgt. Mohammed Jafar

At 19 years old, Jafar joined the United States Marines.

“I joined because I was in high school when September 11th happened and I knew I wanted to serve and protect my country,” he shares.

Saying “goodbye” to family and friends was difficult. Jafar says he was “Upset but I was eager to leave; I was only upset because of how sad my mother was.”

Out of the branches of service—Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, Coast Guard, and Space Force—Jafar chose the U.S. Marines.

“I like to challenge myself and they are toughest,” he shares.

For training he was sent to Paris Island, S.C.

“My recruiter picked me up from my house in the morning and drove me to Fort Dix, N.J., and we took a bus to Philadelphia where we flew to South Carolina,” he describes. “From there, we rode on a bus with no curtains to Paris Island.”

Training was intense. Body conditioning and running were his most difficult of tasks, he says.

“It was physically demanding but more mental,” he shares. “We woke up really early, typically started the day off with a run and then classes and more physical training.”

He also learned other skills— “Everything from how to do laundry, how to clean and operate your weapon, how to keep your living quarters clean and physical training as well.”

It was natural to feel like giving up but 

“most days but it wasn’t an option,” he says.

At the end of training, he says “I was proud of myself and grateful to move forward.”

The real test was when he was deployed to Iraq to fight in the war over there. He got there via boat/air transport.

“We flew out of Cherry Point, N.C. to Kuwait on a commercial airliner then hopped on military cargo plane into Baghdad,” he describes his journey.

When he arrived, his first thought was how “Their sky looked just like ours,” he says.

He was assigned as Transferring of Guard and was stationed there for seven months.

It was a scary time, he admits.

“We were constantly attacked by motors and in direct fire like ied’s,” he says. An ied is an improvised explosive device. Unfortunately, he did lose comrades.

Through his service, Jafar earned a Navy Achievement Medal and Good Conduct Medal.

He was “Very happy and grateful” to return home to the U.S., “but I was also really sad about my lost comrades. I was happy to come home but it was never the same. It was a hard adjustment to go from the top of the food chain to what felt like the bottom. It took time to get readjusted to life as a civilian.”

Sandshore Plans Other Events

In addition to the veteran speaker, students at Sandshore were engaged in other activities too.

“We will participate in a Red, White and Blue spirit day and "plant" flags around the front of the school,” says Curry. “We are participating in a school community Halloween candy give back program and students are writing letters to soldiers in class.  We are working with the organization Soldier's Angels to send the candy and letters to our soldiers who are deployed overseas.

“We have also asked our students and staff members to help us create a Hero Wall in the Sandshore foyer by completing a My Hero frame to recognize a family member or friend who has served or is currently active in the military,” she adds. 

Chilling Generosity: Freezer Donation Keeps Mt. Olive Food Pantry Stocked 

By Cheryl Conway

What’s frozen food without a freezer?— Useless to the Mt. Olive Food Pantry, but thanks to the will of the Mt. Olive Area Chamber of Commerce and generation donations, there is a way, and needless to say…wishes do come true.

Just one month into its fundraiser, the MOACC received a generous donation from a local family’s company and was able to provide the freezer to the Mt. Olive Food Pantry last month. MOACC leaders and company owner delivered the much-needed appliance on Wednesday, Nov. 6, just in time to keep holiday meals and turkeys frozen for local residents to enjoy.

From the givers to the receivers, all parties are pleased with the fundraiser’s progress.

“Thank you,” says Sue Morse, administrator of the Mt. Olive Food Pantry in Budd Lake. “It’s really appreciated; it’s really needed.”

The Mt. Olive Food Pantry is located at the lower level of the Episcopal Church on Sandshore Rd. in Budd Lake. Currently, the pantry helps support approximately 150 families, with new families added each month. Food collection to support these families is year-round.

The families visit the pantry to pick up essentials they need: Food, cleaning supplies, pet foods, etc.,” shares Councilman Charles Aaron, president of MOACC for the past five years.

“The support the pantry provides are to any and all who seek their support,” he says.

When the MOACC learned about the pantry in need of two freezers, there was no time for its action to thaw.

“We decided to host the fundraiser during our October Board meeting knowing that Sue Morse and the Mt. Olive Food Pantry, who are members of our chamber were in desperate need of a new freezer,” says Patricia Singer, MOACC vice president.

“When we first discussed this fundraiser, our entire board jumped right on it and agreed that it was a worthy cause,” adds Singer whose been on the board for six years. “We love to support Sue and the pantry as much as we possibly can. It is such a small effort that gives us such a big reward! 

The MOACC kicked off its fundraiser on Oct. 2 and will keep it going through Dec. 31.

“We set a goal for the cost of one freezer which we equated to around $4,000,” says Singer.

“The food pantry is required to have a specific type of freezer so in our research we found that the type of freezer they required was between $3,000 and $4,000,” she adds. “We didn't want to get them the cheapest version, so we aimed high and we are so glad we did! Our chamber members and the entire community has been so generous!

“With the gracious donation of a freezer from the wonderful people of Mediterranean Restaurant Equipment (family-owned company that live here in Mt. Olive), at delivery of that freezer we also gave the Food Pantry a check for $1,800 and the fund is still growing with donations coming in daily,” Singer shares proudly.

The MOACC typically sets up a holiday party food pantry donation drop to support the pantry, but this year stressed donations for the freezers. Food donations, however, are always welcome.
“For most of our events we give our members the opportunity to donate to the Food Pantry as we know that it is an important resource for the families in our community,” says Singer. 

“We always encourage donation drops of needed foods for the food pantry,” she adds. “We host our spring morning networking event at the food pantry in which attendees bring food donations. We also are involved in the pick-up of donations from the larger Mt. Olive companies and deliver and unload them at the pantry around the holidays. We also have a donation button option for all of our events that we hold too throughout the year. 

“It is so easy to donate,” she adds. “We have a link under the "events" section on our website www.mountolivechambernj.com. People can donate as little or as much as they want. We are grateful for every penny. 

“Our Chamber Holiday Party is on December 4 and we are looking forward to presenting Sue with another big check! Let's keep those donations coming!” 

The Mt. Olive Food Pantry can be found online at https://mountolivepantry.org/  At the website, learn more about its efforts and what is needed.

“Our Chamber efforts are focused on raising funds through the end of the year to provide new freezer capacity in addition to the generous donation from The Mediterranean Restaurant Equipment Group,” confirms Aaron, eight-year member of MOACC. 

“Please donate what you can and thank you so much for your kindness and generosity,” the MOACC shares on its website.

Stuff the Cruiser Helps Fill Pantries & Bellies

By Cheryl Conway

Thanks to the Stuff A Cruiser Food Drive, more residents in Mt. Olive will be able to stuff their pantries and bellies with food this year.

For the past five years, the Mt. Olive Food Pantry in Budd Lake has been the recipient of food and monetary donations from the Stuff A Cruiser Food Drive. The event has been sponsored by Flanders Shoprite in its ShopRite Partners in Caring program, a hunger fighting initiative.

Mt. Olive Food Pantry volunteers are so grateful for the support provided at the local level to help the current 150 families that utilize the local pantry for food, non-perishables and other necessities.

“Mt. Olive Pantry would like to thank the Mt. Olive Police and the Flanders Shoprite for holding this year’s Stuff the Cruiser Food drive,” says Susan Morse, Mt. Olive Food Pantry administrator.  “The pantry especially wishes to thank all the residents who shopped that day and donated food items to the pantry.”

The local event was held Saturday, Sept. 14, at the Flanders ShopRite.

The pantry collected approximately three pallets of non-perishable food along with monetary donations, shares Morse.    

“The most ever collected was five pallets,” she says. She is grateful every year no matter how much it gets.

“Currently, the pantry helps support approximately 150 families, with new families added each month,” says Morse. “This food will help those families in need.”

This year was the 25th anniversary year for the ShopRite Partners in Caring program.

“ShopRite stores are committed to helping neighbors in need throughout the communities served by their stores,” as stated on ShopRite Partners in Caring website. “That’s why in 1999, we established the ShopRite Partners In Caring program, a community-based, hunger fighting initiative that supports more than 2,200 charities. Since its founding, ShopRite Partners In Caring has donated more than $48 million to soup kitchens, food pantries, homeless shelters, senior citizen centers, and other organizations that are on the front lines of fighting hunger.”

While many different volunteers usually come out to lend a hand, Morse recognizes these three individuals for that extra hand in this year’s  Stuff A Cruiser Food Drive: Morse thanks Jerry Salomon, Bob Heyert and Cindy Cassini from the bottom of her cupboard.

What's still needed for November for families?

“With Thanksgiving and Christmas, the pantry still needs staples such as vegetable oil, canned vegetables (no string beans), rice, pasta, tomato products, canned yams, cake mixes and cake frostings, muffin mixes, and mashed potato sides,” says Morse. “All items should be regular sizes, no super-sized containers.”

The Mt. Olive Food Pantry is located at the lower level of the Episcopal Church on Sandshore Rd. in Budd Lake.

Gift cards and monetary donations are also appreciated. Submit payment through the website at https://www.mountolivepantry.org/donate or send checks to Mt. Olive Pantry, 6 Naughright Rd, Hackettstown, NJ 07840.

Drop off times are Monday and Friday, 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Open for drop-off and clients on Tuesday 9:30 a.m. to noon; Saturday 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.; and second and fourth Mondays from 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m.

For more information, call 862-251-3938.

Anonymous Animal Crocheter Brings Children Comfort

By Cheryl Conway

Continuing life’s journey without a loved one can be life altering but this one woman found an altruistic way in her path.

An unknown elderly woman has turned to crocheting to fill that void in her life and instead of continuing with a frown, she has placed a smile on many children’s faces.

The Mt. Olive Pantry recently received a donation of crocheted animals by a kind lady who remains unknown.

“A kind lady who donated them did not leave any identifying information, except to say that with the passing of her husband, she now had more time on her hands and decided to pick up her crochet hook,” shares Susan Morse, administrator of the Mt. Olive Food Panty.

This woman dropped off about a dozen handmade crocheted animals at the Mt. Olive Food Pantry at Episcopal Church on Sandshore Rd. in Budd Lake on Friday, Sept. 13. There was even a surprise crocheted Santa Claus in the mix.

“She wanted to donate them to children,” adds Morse.  “The animals were beautiful, and the work expertly done.   We just want to say thank you to this talented lady.”

By Cheryl Conway

Those who visited The All-Veterans Memorial in Budd Lake this fall may have wondered why a drone, camera person, interviewer and individuals dressed up in their distinguished attire for a few days in September.

The exciting news is that the AVM is being featured in a new documentary: "On Behalf of a Grateful Nation."

AVM Founder Charlie Wood Uhrmann is the creator behind the documentary as she lined up the production company and interviewer and scheduled a dozen interviews that spanned over a few days. After 16 years since she began building the AVM, Uhrmann decided it was time to share the intricate details behind her masterpiece.

“The documentary has been planned since the beginning,” shares Uhrmann of South Carolina and formerly of Hackettstown. “I have always believed in the importance of leaving behind an accurate accounting of how a project began, the people involved and how it evolved.  Accuracy and truth are especially important in today's world of technology.”   

History

The AVM began as a local Eagle Scout project in 2006 by Uhrmann’s son, Eric Wood. Since then it has developed into one-of-a-kind veterans memorial that serves as a place for remembrance, prayer, volunteerism, creativity and education.

To date, Uhrmann has completed 17 or 18 elements at the AVM with the last two being the Military Child, Children of War, War Against Children Monument/ Prayer Garden and Lest We Forget to remember the 13 soldiers killed in Afghanistan.

The phases include: Main Complex / Charlie Johnson Gazebo; Path To Enduring Freedom; 14 Bollards at the GWOT Bridge installed by Home Depot;  War Dog Memorial;  NorthStar Seating installed by Home Depot;  Liberty Walkway; Spiritual Cenotaph; Warrior Obelisk; Bill of Rights Wall; Bollards (around parking lot) installed by Home Depot; POW/MIA/PTSD Remembrance Wall; Ascension Bell; POW/MIA Podium; Reflection Sanctum (Prayer Garden); WWII Belgium display; Gen. Patton Walkway; and War Horse Memorial.

The creativity and attention to detail with each element really makes each phase its own masterpiece.

More than 2,000 pavers have been placed within the grounds at the AVM and are sponsored by more than 2,000 people, shares Uhrmann.

Now that her project is complete, Uhrmann knew it was the right time for the documentary.

“Our primary focus was placed on the meaning behind the elements and their primary sponsors,” shares Uhrmann. “We also provided snippets of the All Veterans Memorial's signature ceremonies,” such as Memorial Day, National POW/MIA 24 Hour Vigil, and Honorary Service Ceremonies. 

“The 'main players' of the documentary are those who either designed, built, sponsored, supported or participated in the programs, she says. 
The name of the production company is CBR Productions which is owned by Brennan Rowe; who is also the producer and director.  Joining the CBR media team is Global War on Terror Combat Veteran Sgt. Mohammed Jafar who proudly served in the U.S. Marine Corps.  
Cheryl Conway of Flanders  was a key asset to the team, she adds. 

“Ms. Conway is not only a seasoned journalist, she is also an experienced interviewer for large productions,” says Uhrmann. “In fact, she interviewed Holocaust survivors,” which are currently archived at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum.

“She did an amazing job creating a relaxed atmosphere for those who were being interviewed,” adds Uhrmann.  “We were sincerely blessed to be able to draw from her calm nature and expertise.” 
The interviews were ongoing from Sept. 14 through Sept. 22. Perfect timing, really, as the POW/MIA 24-hour vigil was filmed and is being made part of the documentary. With hour-long time slots set for more than a dozen interviews, the production team dealt with some surprises along the way.

“Though everyone was equally as valuable - we were given one big, really big surprise, an interview with Attorney Robert Russell who was agreeable to share father, WWII Army Private Robert Russell Sr.'s remarkable accounting of being a Prisoner of War while fighting the Germans,” shares Uhrmann. 
Long time personal friends with Uhrmann, Russell spoke about the less supportive position he held as Uhrmann worked tirelessly on the AVM.

“During his interview, he expressed a change of heart after he saw for the very first time the magnitude of the park and speaking to a couple of combat veterans about how the AVM directly impacts their lives,” says Uhrmann. “Russell further described the AVM as 'Holy Ground.'”  
 In the final interview, Conway tours the AVM with Uhrmann to dive into greater detail behind the elements.

Once the interviews were completed, the editing process began and was expected to last about four weeks.

According to Uhrmann, “On Behalf of a Grateful Nation” was set to be premiered at the AVM's Awards / Appreciation Dinner scheduled for Monday, Nov. 11, Veterans Day, at the Musconetcong Lodge No. 151 Free & Accepted Mason in Budd Lake.  The documentary, however, is still in the works.  

The plan is to release it to the public once it is released and completed.  All of those involved in the documentary will be present at the dinner, she adds.  

“The purpose of the dinner is to show my appreciation for everyone's unwavering support and kind contribution over the many years, and to bring everyone together to show that we continue to be One Nation Under God and that together we can do remarkable things,” says Uhrmann. 

As she nears completion of the finale to her one-of-a-kind memorial, she feels a tug in her heart.

“It is a bittersweet,” says Uhrmann. “Though I am proud of what we have accomplished over the years together, I am kind of sad.  I have and always will love the AVM.  I have always believed it was my calling from God.  That is why I fought so darn hard to keep it, maintain it and add to it.  I realize it does not compare to some of our nation's more notable veteran's memorial - however, it is the only full-scale veterans memorial park that was created by 'The People and for the People'.

“My greatest gift of all was to hear my good friend Robert Russell, not an overly religious man, describe the AVM as "Holy Ground"... It does not get any better than that!” she says smiling. 

By Cheryl Conway

November kicks off the holiday season where families gather and spend time together, and while for many it can be a joyous occasion, for others facing the loss of a loved one, the happy may be missing from their table.

Hence, why November is Children’s Grief Awareness Month and the third Thursday of each November is recognized as Children's Grief Awareness Day. Its purpose is to raise awareness about the impact of grief on children and need to support those who have experienced loss.

Originated in 2008 in Pennsylvania as a collaboration between the Highmark Caring Place and students from local schools, the day was created in response to students' desire to bring attention to the struggles of their grieving classmates, explains Annette Mendez of Mt. Olive, Training & Curriculum Manager at Good Grief, a non-profit grief support center for children and families.

The day is observed annually on the third Thursday of November, which is the Thursday before Thanksgiving in the United States. This year, the day falls on Nov. 21.

“The timing of the day is intentional, as the holiday season can be a difficult time for grieving children and families,” says Mendez.

To raise the issue on a local front, Mendez approached local governing officials and requested a proclamation be issued. 

“Being a Mt. Olive resident and having my daughters still in the district, I felt it was important for the community to start to recognize this day,” says Mendez whose lived in town for the past eight years. “I know Mayor Nicastro is heavily involved with his constituents and that he and the council would respond positively to this.  This is about children and in Mt. Olive we are always striving to do better and do right by our children, what better way to do that than to proclaim a day for them? Mayor Nicastro has said that he will be bringing the request to the council and we are hoping it is passed.”

Mt. Olive Twp. Passes Resolution

At its October 28 Mt. Olive Twp. Council meeting, Mt. Olive Twp. Mayor Joe Nicastro issued a proclamation recognizing Children’s Grief Awareness Day on Nov. 21.

Nicastro expresses his support. 

“I was recently contacted by a community member regarding Children’s Grief Awareness Day,” says Nicastro. “They asked if we could issue a proclamation recognizing Thursday, November 21st, 2024, as Children’s Grief Awareness Day. I was more than happy to do so, knowing how many individuals and families could benefit from support during the difficult times of losing a loved one. It’s an important reminder to come together as a community and offer our care to those in need.”

 According to the proclamation Nicastro read during the meeting, one child out of 13 in New Jersey will have a parent die before they graduate from high school and that number does not include those children who experience the death of a sibling, close grandparent, aunt, uncle or friend.

The reality is that some families do not know where to turn when faced with grief. The good news is there are organizations out there that can help! One of those organizations is Good Grief, with support centers in Morristown and Princeton. 

“Everyone's grief is unique, but we encourage people to find support, community, and connection in ways that work best for them,” says Mendez who has been working at Good Grief this past year. “They don't need to navigate this experience alone.” 

Her role at Good Grief is to collaborate with school districts and organizations throughout New Jersey on the implementation and delivery of grief informed workshops and professional development.

“As part of the Good Grief Schools Initiative team, I provide workshops and training on how to build resilience within the grief community and how to grow from adversity,” she says. 

“As a former bi-lingual educator, I have passion for working with my community and cultivating relationships with educators across districts to ensure they are providing lessons and spaces that are equitable,” she adds. “We can’t be equitable without being grief informed.”

Good Grief was established in 2004 by a group of concerned volunteers who saw the lack of high-quality grief support for kids in post 9/11 NJ.

“Our purpose is really to empower children and families and help to build up resiliency and strength after adversity and loss,” explains Mendez. “We do this by going into schools and other organizations and destigmatizing grief.  We strive to shrink this big elephant in the room into something that is not as difficult to address.”  

With 20 years of helping families, Good Grief has served 1,000 individuals each year in its centers, Mendez notes. 

“We do not have any families from Mt. Olive so far,” she notes. 

 Since 2018, it has partnered with 380 schools and has trained  20,391 individuals in Good Grief Schools.

For most of the organization’s history, it has been providing peer support programs to grieving children and families starting at 3 years old through young adulthood. In recent years, its work has expanded through education and advocacy to provide training, curriculum, and resources to schools, hospitals and healthcare, the funeral industry, corporations, and other spaces to empower professionals, parents, and the broader community to support the needs of children and families facing loss.

Since November is designated as Children’s Grief Awareness, Good Grief will be hosting a free community webinar in honor of Children's Grief Awareness Day.  It will be sharing a lesson plan and activity that participants can take back to their schools or clients.  It will also have a t-shirt campaign through bonfire, https://www.bonfire.com/goodgrief-2024/;  a portion of the proceeds will go to Good Grief. 

“We also have our annual Gala coming up in November in Princeton, as well as two 5ks,” adds Mendez.  In addition to that, educators can reach out at education@good-grief.com if they are interested in any professional development opportunities not only for their staff but for parents and caregivers as well.

“We have monthly community webinars that are free to the public, they are conducted via zoom, recorded and then uploaded to our YouTube page,” she adds.

While November is being highlighted, Good Grief is a year-long center and community support is always welcome.    

“Getting the word out,” is paramount, she says.

“Come visit us, we have open houses periodically,” says Mendez. “Spread the word, tell people about us.  Tell your neighbor whose child may have lost a pet recently, tell a friend who you know is dealing with grief.  Reach one teach one is my motto.”

Mendez explains why her work at Good Grief is so important.

“I am deeply passionate about this organization’s purpose because I believe that grief is a universal experience that touches all of us at some point in our lives,” shares Mendez. “Many children and families struggle silently with their feelings, often feeling isolated and misunderstood. I have a profound empathy for those navigating the difficult landscape of grief, and I recognize how crucial it is to create a safe space for them to express their emotions.

“By fostering open conversations and encouraging emotional expression, we can help individuals understand that their feelings are valid and shared,” she continues. “This organization plays a vital role in guiding families through their grief journeys, and I am inspired to contribute to this mission, helping to ensure that no one feels alone in their struggle

“Whenever I tell people what I do for a living, they often respond with, ‘Oh, that’s so sad,’” adds Mendez. “However, I always emphasize that I truly love my job. While it is indeed heartbreaking to think about a child in grief, it is equally rewarding to witness the joy of children visiting our centers, knowing they are embraced fully and unconditionally, regardless of where they are in their grieving process. They are not broken, and there’s no need to fix them. Our role is to listen, provide support, and remind others that grief can be a positive experience, hence our name Good Grief.”

Let's think about the upcoming holidays. This month is Thanksgiving and in December there are several religious holidays with time off from school for celebrations. Get ahead of this weight gain and start working out!!
We are a female only group and our classes are low impact. The routines are easy to follow. Come and try a few classes.
We have package pricing so you can sign up for just 4 classes a month, 6 classes a month, 8 classes a month or unlimited classes (which is usually 26 or 27 classes a month). If you want to know these pricing options, call or email at lmhars@gmail.com; Laura at 
973-903-0453
Monday 6- 7PM.- Zumba (Deanna)-A total dance/cardio workout to hip-hop or Latin music. Join the party and dance those pounds off. Some weight training is also added in the middle of the dance routine.

Tuesday 6- 7PM -Step & Strike (Lisa)– 25 minutes of Step, 20 minutes of cardio kickboxing and abs at the end.

 Wednesday 6- 7PM -(Cheryl) Cardio Blast - alternating cardio intervals including Step, kickboxing, aerobics with the ball and strength training.

 Thursday 6- 7PM - Total Tone (Julia)-Cardio and Toning starting with shoulders, chest, biceps/triceps and back. Lower body moves like squat and lunges are also included. Weights, dyna-bands and medicine balls are used
Saturday 9 a.m. – 10 a.m. -(Laura)- 10/10/10/10”- an interval cardio class alternating different cardio activities every 10 minutes. Intervals of kickbox, medicine ball aerobics, step and strength training with dyna bands are included. 

Sunday 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. - “Step & Sculpt” (Lisa) - toning segments added to a step class for all levels alternating using low level weights.  Some aerobics with ball, weights and band may be added.
 

Address for exercise program:

New Beginnings Bible Church

104 Bartley Flanders Rd, Flanders.

By Cheryl Conway 

 ‘Tis the season for colorful lights; time spent with family and friends; present wrapping, opening and giving; and holiday events and activities local and closer than the North Pole.  Mt. Olive is gearing up for a series of holiday events that promise to dazzle and delight. Like snowflakes that may sprinkle in the trees, Morris County also has some light displays, Santa meet and greet and winter wonderlands. Here’s a list of holiday happenings that locals won’t want to miss! Try one, try all, and cross them off that list!  

1. Mistletoe Market

• When: Friday through Sunday, Dec. 6-Dec. 8; Dec. 13-15, 5 p.m.-8 p.m.; Sundays 11 a.m.-3 p.m.
• Where: Turkey Brook Park, Budd Lake
• Highlights: Mt. Olive Recreation will organize a cozy outdoor market where holiday shoppers can find unique gifts, enjoy food and drinks and gather by the fire. Expect pictures with Santa, food trucks and hot chocolate, carolers and performances, bonfire, gift and food donation and tons of shopping!

2. Tree Lighting Ceremony

• When: Friday, Dec. 6, 6 p.m.-7 p.m.
• Where: Turkey Brook Park, Flanders
• Highlights: Free community event for the entire family. Performance from The Holiday Belles, meet Santa, train rides, gift vendors, food vendors, kids’ crafts and more. Sponsored by the mayor, council, recreation and Mountain Top Church in Hackettstown.

3. Santa’s 2024 Gift Tour

• When: December, Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays 6 p.m. to 8:30 p.m.; Saturdays 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.
• Where: Mt. Olive
• Highlights: Have Santa come to your home on a fire truck to deliver presents to your family and take pictures. Sponsored by the Flanders Fire Co. #1 and Rescue Squad.  Donation of $75 per family; unlimited number of children. First come, first serve. Dates will fill up fast!  Visit CUR8.com and search Flanders Fire to reserve date and time.   

4.  Hanukka Celebration

• When: Monday Dec. 30 at 6:30 p.m.
• Where: Chabad Jewish Center of Mt. Olive, Flanders
• Highlights: Light Up Mt. Olive at a Chanukah Celebration featuring a giant menorah lighting, latkes and donuts, Jewish music and local dignitaries.

5.  Morristown’s Christmas Festival on the Green

• When: Weekends, December 1 - December 22, noon to 8 p.m.
• Where: Morristown Green, Morristown
• Highlights: This 100-year tradition transforms Morristown’s Green into a sparkling winter wonderland with family activities and entertainment featuring holiday lights and wreaths adorning streetlights; Santa’s house to visit and photos; holiday crafts like gingerbread house and ornament making; miniature train rides around the Green; and live performances by local choirs and entertainers. Visitors can enjoy holiday treats, storytelling and even ice sculpting demonstrations. Perfect for young families, the festive spirit is contagious, making it a holiday tradition for many!

6. Skylands Stadium Christmas Light Show & Village

• When: Through December 30 (check specific dates)
• Where: Skylands Stadium, Augusta
• Highlights: Featuring a mile-long drive-through light show with over two million twinkling lights, Skylands Stadium also boasts a Christmas Village where you can meet Santa, adults can enjoy a Winter Beer Garden and explore local vendors. The display is set to music, creating a magical experience as you drive through. Roast s’more on a fire pit, sip hot coca and indulge holiday treats.

7.  Festival of Trees at the Frelinghuysen Arboretum

• When: Through December 31
• Where: Frelinghuysen Arboretum, Morris Township
• Highlights: Celebrate the season on Dec. 7 and Dec. 7 by decorating the Frelinghuysen Arboretum’s Mansion in this annual Festival of Trees. Calling all scouts, families, floral designers and garden clubs in this festive family outing. This indoor display features beautifully decorated trees by local businesses, artists, and community groups. Wander the arboretum’s halls for creative tree displays that showcase themes from traditional to quirky. The venue is family-friendly and makes for a lovely afternoon holiday activity, especially for those interested in nature and crafts.

8.  Family Gingerbread House Decorating

• When: Friday, Dec. 13
• Where: Roxbury Public Library, Roxbury
• Highlights: Decorate a preassembled gingerbread house with your family. Registration required. Visit attend.roxburylibrary.org/events

9. Christmas in Chester: Holiday Craft Fair and Market

• When: Through December 22
• Where: Downtown Chester
• Highlights: Browse local handmade crafts, jewelry, and holiday decor from more than 100 artisans. You’ll also find plenty of food vendors, drinks, gifts, jewelry, Christmas decorations and clothing. Chester’s picturesque downtown decorated in lights makes this an ideal outing for a family shopping trip.

10. Hackettstown Hometown Holiday

• When: Friday, Dec. 6 and Saturday, Dec. 7
• Where: Various locations, Hackettstown
• Highlights: The Hackettstown BID will host the Annual Hometown Holiday celebration! Final Schedule will be announced. Look for all your favorite activities and events! Eat, drink and shop all weekend; Holiday Bazaar Shopping and Dining Tent; businesses open late with specials; Centenary University Grand Illumination and Holiday Celebration; Santa Parade, Tree Lighting, Santa Selfies; Santa Winter Wonderland; Deck the House: tour Hackettstown’s historic homes, all decked out for the holiday season. This self-guided event lets families take in festive decorations while learning about the town’s architectural history.

11. Winter Wonderland

• When: Saturday and Sunday, Dec. 14 and 15, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.
• Where: Ort Farms, Long Valley
• Highlights: Enjoy horse drawn carriage rides, Christmas crafts, photo ops and more.

12.  Merry Mt. Olive Holiday Lights Competition

• When: Through December 24
• Where: Throughout Mt. Olive
• Highlights: Register your house by Dec. 6 on CommunityPass through Mt. Olive Recreation to show off your holiday spirit and a chance to win a $50 gift card to a local business out of three festive categories. Categories include Hallmark Happiness; Frosty’s Favorite; and O Holy Lights. People vote between Dec. 9 and Dec. 23; winners announced Dec. 24.

Tips for Visiting with Little Ones

1. Arrive Early: Holiday events are always popular! Early arrivals ensure a good spot for parades and less waiting time for activities.
2. Dress Warmly and Layer Up: Winter in Morris County can be chilly. Dressing in layers helps kids stay comfortable outdoors and indoors.
3. Pack Snacks and Water: Small snacks and drinks can help keep little ones happy during the event (and avoid food lines).
4. Stroller-Friendly Gear: Many events, especially outdoor festivals, may involve walking, so a comfortable stroller or carrier can be a big help.
5. Plan for Breaks: Keep an eye out for benches or seating areas where kids can take a rest, especially at longer events.

This season, celebrate the magic of the holidays in Morris County. From dazzling lights to festive parades, these events are sure to bring joy and warmth to all!  

 

The Hackettstown Rotary Club joins with community partner WRNJ to hold the annual Holiday Food Drive to benefit NORWESCAP Food Bank from 9 a.m. to noon on Saturday, Nov. 23, at the Panera Bread parking lot in Mansfield Plaza on Route 57 in Hackettstown. Cash donations are welcome and the following items are needed:

• Frozen Turkeys and Hams
• Canned fruits and vegetables
• Tuna
• Peanut butter
• Carrots
• Stuffing mix
• Pasta
• Sauces
• Non-perishable food
• **Gift cards and donations are appreciated.

“The Hackettstown Rotary Club and WRNJ have been great partners in this worthwhile initiative, which we have been holding for over 20 years,” says Catherine Rust, Hackettstown Rotary Club president.   “And there are no words to describe the heartwarming feeling of seeing the whole community also coming together to support neighbors in need at this time of year.  It’s an extraordinary feeling to see the joy on the faces of the many people who come to donate each year!  We live in a very generous community.”All food and money donations support NORWESCAP Food Bank, an important resource regionally, and one of only 5 Feeding America Food Banks in the state of New Jersey.     For more information about this Food Drive, contact Rust at catherine.rust@centenaryuniversity.eduAbout Norwescap Food BankNorwescap’s Food Bank, a member of Feeding America, is dedicated to ending hunger and reducing food waste by soliciting, storing and distributing donated food and other products to partner organizations in Hunterdon, Sussex and Warren counties. The Food Bank distributes enough food to provide nearly 1.7 million meals annually to over 100 pantries, shelters, soup kitchens, on-site feeding programs, childcare centers, senior centers, and programs for the disabled.  Norwescap also supports summer food programs for children, school pantries and backpack programs for public schools throughout the region.

About Hackettstown Rotary ClubThe Hackettstown Rotary Club is part of Rotary International, a  global network of 1.4 million neighbors, friends, and leaders volunteer their skills and resources to solve issues and address community needs.  Solving some of the world’s most complex and pressing problems takes real commitment and vision. Rotary members believe in a shared responsibility to take action to improve our communities.  The Hackettstown Rotary invites friends and neighbors to join us, so that we can make an even bigger impact together.  

Councilwoman Mary Lalama is getting ready for her annual Thanksgiving Dinner at the Mt. Olive Township Senior Center in Flanders. 

This free traditional Thanksgiving dinner will begin at noon on Thursday, Nov. 28. The perfect company and delicious food will be served to anyone in need or alone on the holiday. Meals will also be delivered on Wednesday to anyone who requests.

Text Lalama at 973-768-1815 or email at mary.lalama@gmail.com to reserve space or a meal. 

It is often said that the arts are nourishment for the soul, but throughout the holiday season, MPAC will literally be collecting food for these in need. Mayo Performing Arts Center is holding a food drive this holiday season with all donations going to nourish.NJ.

 Patrons attending events are encouraged to donate non-perishable food items and personal care items at shows. Donations may also be dropped off at the box office during regular business hours: 10 a.m. – 6 p.m., Mon.-Sat.).

Requested items include:

-cans of tuna/chicken 

-boxes of cereal

-instant oatmeal packets

-protein bars 

-hearty stews/soups

-rain ponchos/umbrellas

-new warm hats/gloves

-laundry pods

-shampoo/body wash/conditioner 

-disposable razors

nourish.NJ creates lasting solutions to the problems of hunger, homelessness and poverty. It offers food, housing, work readiness, medical, social and educational services 365 days a year in a warm, safe and caring environment, free of charge, no questions asked. More information is available at https://nourishnj.org/

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About MPAC

Mayo Performing Arts Center, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, presents a wide range of programs that entertain, enrich, and educate the diverse population of the region and enhance the economic vitality of Northern New Jersey. The 2024-2025 season is made possible, in part, by a grant the New Jersey State Council on the Arts/Department of State, a Partner Agency of the National Endowment for the Arts, as well as support received from the F.M. Kirby Foundation, The Blanche and Irving Laurie Foundation and numerous corporations, foundations and individuals. 

Attention, animal lovers! Pawfect Journey has arrived, a new free pet resource that provides everything you need to give your pets the care and attention they deserve. Whether you are looking for tips on training your pets or creative ideas to enrich their lives, Pawfect Journey is the go-to resource for pet parents in Mt. Olive.

Explore helpful articles on Dog Toys for High Energy Dogs, Questions to Ask Yourself Before Adopting a Cat, and Can Dogs Eat Salmon.  Pawfect Journey is the ultimate resource for maintaining a fantastic relationship with your animal companions.

Additionally, Pawfect Journey is seeking partnerships with local shelters, non-profits, and other pet-related organizations. Pawfect Journey aims to create a network of resources that benefit pets and their owners and make a positive impact within the community.

No matter your experience level, this website caters to all pet owners by offering helpful information for every stage of your pet’s life. Visit www.pawfectjourney.com today and launch into a new journey with your pets.

For further information, contact:
info@pawfectjourney.com

With the holiday season approaching, the Morris County Office of Aging, Disabilities, and Community Programming (ADCP) reminds residents of the importance of supporting the senior community and ensuring they feel connected, valued, and cared for during this special time of year.

This year, the ADCP office provided more than 110 “Joy for All” robotic companion pets to qualifying residents and facilities across the county as part of an initiative aimed at alleviating social isolation, loneliness, and cognitive decline among seniors.

The program, which was funded by the Aging American Rescue Plan, allocated 20 robotic companion pets to the Morris County Sheriff’s Office, which distributed them to clients enrolled in its Project Lifesaver program. Additionally, 12 pets were donated to the Cornerstone Adult Day Center and each of the county's 12 nutrition sites “adopted a pet” to keep onsite. 40 pets were distributed through the Nutrition Home Delivered Meals program, and Hope House will distribute another 25 pets.

In October, Christine Hellyer, director of the ADCP office and Sheriff James M. Gannon appeared on New Jersey 101.5 FM to discuss Morris County’s “Joy for All” companion pets program.

“When addressing social isolation and dementia care, we wanted something creative approach. The "Joy for All” companion pets have been the focus of rigorous, peer-reviewed studies demonstrating their efficacy to alleviate the many of the effects of loneliness and social isolation,” said Christine Hellyer. “The partnership with the Sheriff’s Office to distribute the pets was an essential component of this program. In total, about 120 companion pets were provided to seniors or senior programs that could benefit from them.”

To qualify for a companion pet, recipients must be at least 60 years of age, homebound, and either socially isolated or experiencing dementia or a similar cognitive condition. Designed to mimic real pets, the "Joy for All" animals aim to provide companionship and comfort for those unable to care for live animals.

“Our aging community is a vital part of Morris County, and their well-being is our priority,” said Commissioner Director Christine Myers, liaison to Human Services. “By providing these companion pets, we’re not only offering comfort but also reinforcing our commitment to honoring and supporting our seniors who have contributed so much to our community.”

Gannon, who joined in delivering a companion pet to a Project Lifesaver client, emphasized the importance of this program.

“Anytime the Sheriff’s Office can provide comfort to those in need, we are going to do it. This simple act of support provides aid to those who are homebound,” said Gannon. “We look forward to seeing the tremendous benefits of this program being passed on to a sometimes forgotten population in our community.”

The pets respond to motion and touch: the cats will roll over and purr, while the dogs bark and wag their tails. The pets do not come with names, allowing recipients the personal experience of naming their new robotic dog or cat, which they are welcome to keep for as long as they wish.

“They bring joy without the need for cleanup, which is a great perk,” said Hellyer. “It’s the best of both worlds for these homebound individuals.”

Hellyer expressed hopes to expand the “Joy for All” companion pet program, noting that the county will continue exploring creative strategies and funding opportunities to grow the program to bring joy to even more individuals in need.

Students from Mt. Olive High School’s Rock N Roll Academy, under the direction of Steven Thompson, performed at MetLife Stadium on Saturday, Oct. 12. Such an incredible opportunity for these students to showcase their talent! Pictured are: Robert Chrisler, Lincoln Vera, Arabella Macula, Aiden DeVries, Brendan Harvey, Layla Blakey, Tyler Randazzo, Zachary Laudor, and Mairin Missaggia.

The Morris County Board of County Commissioners honored the Morris County Prosecutor's Office (MCPO) during a bicentennial dinner gala last month at the Park Savoy Estate in Florham Park, marking the office’s 200 years of dedicated service to law and public safety.

Commissioner Douglas Cabana, joined by the full Board of County Commissioners, presented a framed resolution of honor to Prosecutor Robert J. Carroll and his leadership team in recognition of the MCPO’s bicentennial.

“Since 1824 the Prosecutor’s Office has been entrusted with promoting a safe and secure environment for Morris County, and I think we can all agree that they have done an exemplary job,” said Commissioner Cabana, the board’s liaison to the law enforcement in Morris County. “Morris County stands today as one of the safest counties in the state, if not the country. The strength of the institution we honor tonight lies, of course, in its people.”

Representatives from the offices of U.S. Rep. Tom Kean and U.S. Rep. Mikie Sherrill, Sheriff James Gannon and Atlantic County Prosecutor William E. Reynolds also presented honors and praised Prosecutor Carroll and the MCPO for their work. Among those in attendance was retired Appellate Court Judge Donald Collester, who became Morris County’s first full-time prosecutor in 1971 and served until 1977 before becoming a Superior Court judge.

The MCPO was established on December 11, 1823, when the New Jersey General Assembly passed legislation requiring prosecutors to be attorneys appointed for five-year terms — a practice that continues today. George K. Drake, the first “Prosecutor of the Pleas,” took office on December 20, 1824.

Carroll was appointed to his five-year term by Governor Phil Murphy in 2020.

“As the chief law enforcement agency serving a region that predates the founding of our nation, the Morris County Prosecutor’s Office aims to build upon the foundation and commitment to justice demonstrated by the men and women who have served before us,” said Carroll. “Our dedication to lawfulness is the cornerstone of our office’s mission – committing resources in partnership with the law enforcement community, our County Government and Sheriff’s Office and most importantly, the citizens of Morris County, all working together to promote a safe and secure environment.”

Since its founding, the MCPO has evolved to address the changing needs of county residents. Under the guidance of Carroll, First Assistant Prosecutor Maggie Calderwood and Chief of Detectives Robert McNally, the office has upheld a legacy of excellence in investigating major criminal enterprises and addressing critical issues impacting the community.

From bringing closure to the decades-old “Baby Mary” cold case to tackling the opioid crisis, the MCPO has taken on some of the county’s most pressing challenges. Their efforts have earned commendations from numerous law enforcement agencies and strengthened trust within the community. Among the many awards and honors earned by the MCPO, was recently named Prosecutor of the Year by the New Jersey Narcotics Enforcement Officers Association.

“Law enforcement cannot exist without community support,” said Morris County Sheriff James Gannon, who served as Deputy Chief of Investigations for the MCPO from 1986 to 2007. “This is something that the Prosecutor’s Office has understood from the beginning. We are a county that takes action, that gets out into neighborhoods and offers solutions.”

“Celebrating 200 years of the Morris County Prosecutor's Office is a remarkable milestone, and we owe a debt of gratitude to everyone who has served here. Our county’s rich history is grounded in the assurance that we live in a place where justice and safety are paramount,” said Commissioner Director Christine Myers.

Myers, who serves on the Morris County’s 250th Anniversary Steering Committee, also noted that the MCPO’s bicentennial aligns with the upcoming America250 celebrations in 2026 as the county prepares to honor our nation’s 250th anniversary.

Submitted by Diane Lang, positive living expert, life coach, speaker.

Anger keeps you in the dark. The dark is a very lonely place where resentment, bitterness and fear grow.

Forgiveness lets the light back in

The light brings with it hope, self-compassion, kindness and love

Why choose to stay in the dark when there is another way?

Forgiveness gives you the ability to let go of the pain and suffering

We can easily attach ourselves to anger, let it become our identity and become the victim for longer than needed.

Instead choose forgiveness and release the anger and enter into a place of peace.

Forgiveness is done for you and only you!

Forgiveness gives you back your power and freedom

When we remain angry, the person who hurt us rents space for free in our brain. It can stay there until we decide to evict that person.

The beauty of forgiveness is the clarity. You no longer take accountable or responsibility for other's actions.

You learn that how people behave is a reflection of what they are going through.

Forgiveness doesn't mean you won't feel hurt or sad, but it does mean you will remember that you are still loved and enough.

Forgiveness is a balance of forgiving the people who hurt you and forgiving yourself.

We can stay in a place of blame.

Sometimes, we need to forgive ourselves for not seeing the red flags

Staying in the relationship longer than we should have

Accepting the behavior and not setting boundaries/limitations

Staying the people pleaser out of habit and fear

Accepting that we were in a bad place and couldn't see our own worth.

Forgiveness gives you the opportunity to look at a situation through a different perspective.

Forgiveness gives you the time to heal.

For more information visit: www.dlcounseling.com or email Diane Lang at DLCounseling2014@gmail.com.    

County College of Morris (CCM) in Randolph celebrated the launch of a new Industrial Maintenance Mechanic Apprenticeship program, made possible through an innovative partnership with CMC Steel and the New Jersey Department of Labor and Workforce Development (NJDOL).  

The Industrial Maintenance Mechanic Apprenticeship program was built with input from all three partners. CMC Steel’s apprentices will be provided with the knowledge and skills needed to excel. The program will take an apprentice approximately 4,000 hours or two years to complete, making it the largest and most intensive apprenticeship CCM has ever delivered. Students completing the program will be recognized by the U.S. Department of Labor as having completed the program, receiving the Journeyworker designation. 

“Partnerships help us to thrive, and we’re honored to partner with CMC Steel and the NJDOL,” said Dr. Anthony Iacono, president of CCM.  “Manufacturing is one of NJ’s largest and most important industries, and our Advanced Manufacturing and Engineering Center (AMEC) was built to address the need of ensuring that manufacturers across the state will be provided with a steady pipeline of highly skilled individuals. Partnerships like this support our mission of changing lives and strengthening communities.”    

“Our partnership with County College of Morris and CMC Steel is a shining example of how education, industry, and government can unite to provide invaluable opportunities for skill development, career advancement, and economic growth,” said Robert Asaro-Angelo, commissioner of the New Jersey Department of Labor and Workforce Development. “Through programs like these, we are not just preparing individuals for jobs; we are equipping them to drive innovation and success in New Jersey’s workforce.” 

Funding for the apprentices was secured through the Growing Apprenticeships in Nontraditional Sectors (GAINS) grant program. This grant was awarded to CCM by the NJDOL to help students in CCM’s Registered Apprenticeship programs (RAPs) in Advanced Manufacturing, including the Industrial Maintenance Mechanic Apprenticeship program. The GAINS grant program promotes the expansion of the RAPs, which are approved by the U.S. Department of Labor, to support better-paying careers and the attainment of advanced credentials. 

“CMC Steel is proud to participate in this alliance with NJDOL and CCM, said Paul Hiler, Northeast Area Human Resources manager at CMC Steel.” “This sort of apprenticeship education benefits our employees in so many ways. Apprenticeships create opportunities to grow professionally and financially in the manufacturing sector which is so vital to New Jersey.” 

The Industrial Maintenance Mechanic Apprenticeship program is a part of CCM’s Center for Workforce Development, which enables students to learn cutting-edge skills and boost their marketability in an ever-changing job market. This program is a vital part of CCM’s mission with advanced manufacturing, a growing, in-demand sector, having a proven impact on the community.  

To learn more about apprenticeships in advanced manufacturing at CCM, visit  https://www.ccm.edu/programs/pre-apprenticeship-and-apprenticeship/. 

County College of Morris (CCM) and Table of Hope have once again partnered together for a Thanksgiving food distribution event to ensure that families in our community can enjoy a free Thanksgiving meal this year. The drive-through food distribution will take place on CCM’s campus on Friday, Nov. 22, from 1 p.m. – 2:30 p.m. Families in need in Morris County will receive turkeys and all the fixings for a full Thanksgiving meal including fresh produce and canned goods.

To register, visit https://tableofhopenj.org/thanksgiving. Recipients will remain in their vehicles while volunteers place the Thanksgiving meals into each trunk. CCM’s Public Safety team, the Morris County Sheriff’s Office and Parsippany Office of Emergency Management will be on-site to assist with the distribution process to ensure a safe and smooth event. It will take place in Parking Lot 1 on CCM’s campus at 214 Center Grove Road in Randolph.

CCM has been partnering with Table of Hope for the Thanksgiving food distribution for five years to help spread hope and resilience to local families in our community. Economic hardships continue to impact many in Morris County, especially during the holiday season.

This event is supported by local and state officials and numerous community partners, sponsors and a large team of volunteers.

“We are the community’s college and are proud to work alongside other community organizations such as Table of Hope to support our neighbors and friends,” said Dr. Anthony Iacono, president of CCM. “We thank Table of Hope for their partnership, along with the many local and state organizations and the volunteers who support this event to make it successful each year.”

Since 2011, Table of Hope has been committed to improving the quality of life of Morris County families, constructing pathways to economic stability, educational excellence and holistic well-being.  To make a donation, visit tableofhopenj.org/donate. To learn more about volunteering with Table of Hope, visit tableofhopenj.org/volunteer. If you have questions, email info@tableofhopenj.org.

County College of Morris (CCM) in Randolph, the #1 community college in New Jersey for alumni salaries according to Payscale, is excited to announce that registration for the Winterim and Spring 2025 semesters is now open. This is the perfect opportunity for students to invest in their future by earning big while saving big—ensuring a path to success without financial strain. 

 By registering now, students can secure their spots in preferred classes that best fit their schedule, whether on-campus or through virtual learning options. CCM offers a wide range of certificate, degrees and career-focused programs, all designed to provide students with an affordable education that helps them graduate with minimal or no debt. In fact, eligible students may even qualify for free tuition, enabling them to embark on their career journeys with confidence and without financial burdens. 

 “At CCM, we believe that an education is a pathway to a brighter future,” said Melissa Albright, vice president of Marketing, Public Relations & Enrollment Management. “Our Winterim and Spring semesters provide CCM students, as well as students at four-year institutions, with flexible ways to get ahead. Early registration gives students the best chance to enroll in the classes they need to stay on track to graduate on time and maximize their investment.” 

Most Winterim courses are offered online in a condensed, four-week format that begins Monday, December 23. This accelerated option is ideal for first-time students or visiting students from four-year colleges who wish to earn credits quickly, meet requirements, explore a new subject or lighten their spring semester course load. The Spring 2025 semester provides three session options to fit diverse schedules. The traditional 15-week session and the Early 7-week session begin on January 21, while the Late 7-week session begins on March 24. 

Why Choose CCM? 

·         Earn BIG: Ranked #1 in NJ for alumni salaries, CCM sets students up for successful, high-earning careers. 

·         Save BIG: With affordable tuition and opportunities for free college (for those who qualify), CCM makes higher education accessible without breaking the bank. 

·         Go BIG: Over 100 programs—spanning certificates, associate degrees, and workforce development—help students launch their futures with confidence. 

Ready to take the next step? New students, including anyone visiting from another institution, can start enrolling at CCM by submitting an online application at www.ccm.edu/admissions/. Questions can be directed to the Admissions Office via email at admiss@ccm.edu or phone at 973-328-5100 and walk-in appointments are welcome at the Student Community Center, 214 Center Grove Road, Randolph. Once your application is complete, you’ll receive an email with registration instructions. Be sure to also apply for financial aid to see how much you can save—some students attend CCM for free!  

Go BIG. Get started today on becoming part of a nationally ranked community college. CCM has been ranked #1 in New Jersey for Best Associate Degrees and Best for Transfer Students in New Jersey who want to continue their college education to earn a bachelor’s degree by Intelligent. 

CCM is committed to excellence in teaching and lifelong learning through the delivery of exceptional programs and services to our students and to the larger community that reflects a dedication to inclusiveness and diversity, educational advancement, cultural enrichment and workforce development. The college believes in creating opportunities for all individuals to thrive and make a positive impact in their communities.   

Centenary University in Hackettstown has been awarded a $5,000 grant renewal from the Hackettstown Medical Center Community Advisory Board to continue a community-wide substance abuse prevention and addiction recovery support program. The program seeks to increase awareness of the signs, symptoms, and risk factors of substance abuse and addictions through training sessions held at the University and in the local community.

In the first phase of the grant, Centenary initiated a series of education and awareness  workshops to equip college students in addiction recovery with information, skills, and peer support to manage their own recovery. In partnership with organizations including Trinity Church in Hackettstown and the Hackettstown Stigma Free Task Force, the grant activities also engaged area high school students and their families—as well as professionals including teachers—to learn the skills to prevent substance abuse and identify those in need of intervention and support. 

Through the grant renewal, the university will expand its partnerships and reach to include Hackettstown High School and the Hackettstown Hope Coalition, which seeks to engage the local community to prevent youth substance use. Workshops will be coordinated by Centenary University’s Graduate Clinical Counseling and School Counseling programs. The Graduate Clinical Counseling program is an approved educational provider by the Addictions Professionals Certification Board of New Jersey and operates an addiction track that provides the required 270 alcohol and drug counselors training hours for licensure as a clinical alcohol and drug counselor in New Jersey. The Graduate School Counseling program is one of the University’s Council for the Accreditation of Educator Preparation (CAEP) accredited programs and is an approved educational services preparation program by the New Jersey Department of Education.

“Community is at the heart of this grant and the University’s outreach efforts to prevent substance abuse and support addiction recovery,” said Centenary University Vice President for Campus Life and Dean of Students Kerry Mullins. “Through the partnerships the University has developed, we are leveraging our shared resources and collective purpose to educate the area’s high school and college populations and their families about risk factors associated with substance use, as well as early intervention strategies for addiction and recovery.” 

 Workshops funded through the first phase of the grant included a Recovery During the Holidays program last November at Trinity Church, which drew approximately two dozen people currently in recovery, as well as family members of those in recovery. The event presented specific strategies to help attendees and their loved ones remain safe and substance free during the holiday season. 

 “Addiction treatment is a finite process, whereas recovery is a lifelong endeavor,” explained Centenary University Professor of Counseling and Director of the Graduate Counseling Programs Keith Morgen, Ph.D., LPC, ACS. “Continuing to provide informational and social support is critical to lifelong recovery success. Centenary University’s Graduate Clinical and School Counseling programs are proud to collaborate with our community partners to offer this recovery support to the University and the broader community.” 

Start spreading the news! Sussex County Community College (SCCC) in Newton is thrilled to present a holiday concert featuring international Broadway star Craig Schulman. 

His signature talent is set to be brought to the Performing Arts Center on Thursday, Dec. 5, at 7 p.m. Known for his captivating performances on Broadway and opera stages worldwide, Schulman will perform a selection of beloved Broadway classics along with festive holiday favorites.

Tickets for this special event are on sale and selling quickly, so don’t miss the chance to enjoy this extraordinary performance in Sussex County.

Schulman is widely recognized for the PBS broadcast of Les Misérables 10th Anniversary Concert. He holds a unique place in theater history as the only actor to have played the iconic roles of Jean Valjean in Les Misérables, the Phantom in The Phantom of the Opera, and the title role in Jekyll & Hyde. With more than 2,500 performances of Les Misérables across three countries, Schulman’s portrayal of Valjean remains legendary. His extensive resume includes roles like Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof, Archibald in The Secret Garden, and Crazy Old Maurice in Disney’s Beauty and the Beast. Schulman’s versatility spans Broadway, opera, and symphonic pops, where he has sung lead tenor roles in The Tales of Hoffmann, Tosca, Madame Butterfly, and many more. He also created and produced the internationally acclaimed BROADWAY NIGHTS™concert series, including Three Phantoms in Concert.  

As an educator, Schulman has taught at Sacred Heart University, offers private vocal coaching, and leads Master Classes in Voice and Musical Theatre, sharing his craft and passion with aspiring artists.

Join SCCC for a memorable evening of music and celebration this holiday season. Tickets are $20 for the community and $10 for students, veterans and employees at SCCC. Visit https://sussex.simpletix.com/ 

Strengthen Our Sisters, a pioneering shelter dedicated to serving the most vulnerable women and children in our community, is issuing a public call for support. The organization, which has long stood as a beacon of hope for those escaping domestic violence and homelessness, faces significant challenges due to funding disparities and bureaucratic hurdles that threaten its ability to operate and serve those in need.

For decades, Strengthen Our Sisters has provided not only shelter but also empowerment for countless individuals seeking refuge from abuse and homelessness. However, recent shifts in funding allocation—specifically, the diversion of DCF funding originally intended to support shelters like ours to other organizations—have severely impacted our financial stability. These other entities, while tasked with addressing domestic violence and homelessness, often do not provide direct shelter services, instead referring individuals back to Strengthen Our Sisters without the necessary financial support.

Compounding these challenges, the State Department of Community Affairs (DCA) has questioned our eligibility for funding vouchers, despite our valid licensure and proven track record of service. This bureaucratic impasse has left us in a precarious position, forcing us to sell one of our properties to sustain our operations.

In the face of these obstacles, Strengthen Our Sisters is not only seeking financial donations from the community but also the assistance of a legal champion. We envision a lawyer with the intellect, courage, and commitment of Perry Mason—a figure renowned for unwavering ethics, dedication, and a deep sense of justice. This legal advocate would help us navigate the complexities of our situation, ensuring that we can continue to provide vital services to those in need.

Our appeal extends beyond a call for legal representation; we are reaching out to individuals, organizations, and anyone moved by our cause to support us in any way possible. Whether through financial contributions, volunteering, or spreading the word, your support is crucial in our ongoing fight to serve and empower the most vulnerable members of our community.

Strengthen Our Sisters stands firm in its mission to offer safety, support, and a path to independence for those we serve. In these challenging times, your support is more critical than ever. We thank you in advance for your generosity, advocacy, and belief in our cause. Together, we can overcome these hurdles and continue to make a profound difference in the lives of those seeking refuge and a new beginning.

For more information on how to help, please contact Strengthen Our Sisters at 973-831-0898 or email at info@strengthenoursisters.org