Scotland Leaves Legacy of Kindness As She Retires

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By Cheryl Conway 

May flowers will most certainly be blooming this spring, not only in landscapes and gardens, but at the Jersey Girl Brewery in Budd Lake. 

Whether it’s art, music, socializing or beer, The Military Child fundraiser set for Sunday, May 21, at the local brewery on Sand Shore Rd. will be the place for fun and camaraderie. The event is being sponsored by the All-Veterans Memorial in Budd Lake. 

The community is invited to the Military Child Painting Event from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m., followed by the AVM’s Beer Garden Social from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m.     

“We are raising funds for the Military Child Monument,” explains Charlie Wood Uhrmann, founder of the AVM. She says “100% of the proceeds will be applied towards the monument.” 

The Military Child Monument is the latest element being designed and sculptured at the AVM, a one-of-a-kind memorial site dedicated to all those who have served and are serving in the military.  

The latest element features a garden representing five variations of flowers:  Three different stages of the dandelion, a poppy and a daisy.  The dandelion will represent the resilient life stages of the military child.  A red poppy will represent “the life of our fallen warriors; the memory of children, all children, our children during war,” says Uhrmann.  And the daisy symbolizes innocence and purity and new beginnings for children, “all children,” caught up in life’s many battles.  

Uhrmann created the design and the concept of the garden. She is hiring Tim Sheldon of Wicked Workz to create the steel sculptured monument, that will stand just under 10 feet on a large mound of stones.  

“We need to raise $8,500 for the monument,” says Uhrmann. The AVM is a non-profit 501©3 organization that has been made possible through donations and sponsorships for the past 15 years. 

For the Military Child Painting event, Uhrmann asks participants to register to ensure there are enough materials. Anyone aged 16-90 is welcome but there is a limit of 50 attendees. The cost is $45, which will include all materials and instructions.  

“Each participant will take home their painting, and a gift bag from the AVM,” says Uhrmann. 

While Uhrmann came up with the overall design and concept, the artist behind the drawing is Eileen Schissler of Mt. Olive, who will be instructing the class. 

“Participants will learn artistic techniques and skill sets from the artist who painted several of the murals at the AVM (Blue Skin),” says Uhrmann.    

The design for the fundraiser is a modified version of what the sculpture will entail. Schissler’s artwork which participants will replica at the event is a “dandelion to represent the Military Child,” explains Schissler. “The three flowers represent the stages of a child’s life.  The bud for the infant/toddler, flower for the adolescent and the fuzzy dandelion for the teen.” 

Under Uhrmann’s suggestion, “I have been working over the past few weeks to come up with a design that would represent the Military Child as well as being a piece that others will be able to paint without too much difficulty,” the artist explains. “The original idea presented to me was several different flowers.  The concept was refined to only include one dandelion.  I took that concept to include a bud, flower and fuzzy dandelion.” 

The flower will be painted with acrylics on a black canvas, she describes. 

“I purchased sketch pads and canvas as well as the paints to complete the design,” says Schissler, an associate support department supervisor at Home Depot where she has worked for the past 25 years. 

This is not Schissler’s first contribution to the AVM. 

“I have worked on several projects over the past 10 years,” she says. “Some with Home Depot and others on my own.  The latest was Washington's horse.” 

As a Mt. Olive resident for 28 years, Schissler says “I am happy to support the community through the work I do at AVM. 

“My dad is a veteran of the Korean War,” continues Schissler. “He served for two years prior to getting married and starting a family.” 

Although she is not a military child, she sympathizes with those who are.   

“I have friends that were in the military and had to leave children behind while serving,” she says. “It is important for people to realize that the sacrifice that is made is one of an entire family including the children of a military parent. 

I think it is a wonderful idea to represent military children.  The children of military parents should not be overlooked.  The military child must give up time spent with a parent without consent.” 

Support is also being given by Chuck Aaron, Jersey Girl Brewery co-owner, who is allowing the AVM to use the brewery as the venue for the fundraiser.  

“I have had the opportunity to work with the All-Veterans Memorial group in the past by hosting a major fundraiser for them at the brewery,” says Aaron. “The project originated from the effort of Eric Wood [Uhrmann’s son] as his Eagle Scout Project. As an Eagle Scout myself, helping to ensure his project efforts can continue to grow and flourish all these years later is important to me.” 

As an 18-year resident of Mt. Olive, Aaron and his family have spent a lot of time at Turkey Brook Park, where the AVM is located. 

“The memorial is a respectful and impactful component to the park,” says Aaron, newly appointed Mt. Olive councilman. “It’s so well designed and pays tribute to so many who have given or fighting for our freedoms. I’m happy that our town park was selected by Eric Wood as a place where we can go and pay respect to our military.” 

Aaron points out that “We don’t take the opportunity to support non-profits lightly and have focused on a few key non-profits focused on: Military, first responders, local youth sports and dog adoptions. As a business in town, we have a unique opportunity to support larger local fundraisers because of the size of our location. The opportunity to give back to the community and non-profits is a key component of who we are as a business.” 

Larger events are held in the “back of the house,” notes Aaron, “a large area located through the main sample room where during the week we manage brewery production. What makes it a great space is the view of the brewhouse, fermentation tanks and the canning machine. It makes for a beautiful backdrop to a private event. Plus, it generally stirs up questions about how we brew beer which I love to talk about. This is a space that is available to anyone to rent through our website: JerseyGirlBrewing.com. 

He assures that 100% of the proceeds for the AVM fundraiser will go toward the AVM’s Military Child element. 

“We don’t ever take money from non-profit events from what they raise,” says Aaron. “That is their money and all of what they earn through their efforts should be available to use towards the AVM efforts. What they provide is important to our military, and anything I can do to support that effort is key.” 

Uhrmann chose Jersey Girl Brewery as the venue for the fundraiser for a few reasons. 

“Jersey Girl Brewery held our very first fundraiser —Octoberfest, where we drew over 600 attendees,” says Uhrmann. “JGB not only sells a great product but has a fun and exciting facility and staff.  They have been staunch supporters of the AVM over the years.” 

Those who do not wish to paint can attend The AVM's Beer Garden social from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. and enjoy beer and music by feature soloist Steve Yeager.  Beer is self-pay, says Uhrmann. 

“We would like everyone to come and give a donation,” she says. “We will have music, games and prizes.” 

For those who are not able to attend but would like to contribute to this worthy cause, send a check or money order to: All Veterans Memorial, 2605 Glover Road, Ridgeland, S.C. 29936. “Any amount of donation would be greatly appreciated,” says Uhrmann.  

To reserve a place at the easel, contact the AVM at: info@allveteransmemorial.org or 973-479-4959.  It will be on a first come, first serve basis. The area will be open to the public to observe.  

By Cheryl Conway 

The search for a local homeowner’s dog last week snowballed into a community affair and its outcome was nothing short of relief. 

Michele Grimes, a Budd Lake resident for 26 years, lost her dog Nala on the morning of Tuesday, March 14, during the worst snowstorm of the season. The 2-year-old Morkie was missing for six hours before she was found. 

Her white coloring blended in with the snow that fell a good portion of the day and covered inches deep.   

“The back gate was accidentally left open,” explains Grimes. “She did not have any identification on her. Her harness was tangled so I took it off her that morning. So, not only was she out in a snowstorm, she also had no ID.”  

Nala went missing around 9 a.m. near New Street and Orchard Street in Budd Lake and was found around 3 p.m. that same afternoon, thankfully!  

“I totally panicked,” describes Grimes. “She's so tiny and it was snowing like crazy. To say I was beside myself is an understatement. I also didn't want to have to tell my husband that his dog was missing!” 

Grimes acted fast using all resources she knew to bring Nala back home. 

“I immediately posted that she was missing on my personal Facebook page as well as Mt. Olive Community Page and called animal control,” says Grimes. “The response was amazing. So many people shared my post. Strangers and neighbors were walking and driving around looking for her. Animal control was out for over two hours looking. It really was incredible how many people in our community helped. Even plow guys and bus drivers were looking for her! My husband and kids left work early to help. I was out looking for her almost all day.” 

Exhausted and losing hope, Grimes received some promising news.  

“Our old dog walker stopped at my house,” explains Grimes. “She had been out looking for her too! She had asked a neighbor if they had seen Nala and they said they had seen her that morning and saw a work van stop and pick her up around 10:30.” 

She was picked up right in her neighborhood on Anderson Place, says Grimes. 

“Since we hadn't heard anything we figured whoever took her was probably going to keep her,” she continues. “I called animal control to give him that update and he told me he had gotten a message that someone found her and he wanted to get all of the info. and he'd call me back. As soon as I hung up with him, the people that found her called me! They had posted in the community group that they found a dog and everyone started tagging me. Sure enough it was Nala. My husband jumped in the car and went to pick up my little five-pound frozen dog that was all wrapped up in a blanket sitting on her saviors lap.” 

A local woman tied to her rescue explains how she was found. 

“My father-in-law was just picking up some dry cleaning and saw a girl trying to get the dog but the dog was nipping at her, so he took his jacket off and scooped up the dog,” explains Holla Vizzio. “He brought the dog home and my mother-in-law and I posted her on the Facebook page group and saw there was already a post about the dog Nala. We called the owners and while they were on their way, my mother-in-law and I took a hair dryer and took almost all of the clumps off of the dog when the owner arrived.” 

Beyond grateful, Grimes got the rescuers a gift card to LongHorn Steakhouse.    

Nala may now be known as the little dog saved on that snowy day, but this was not her first time rescued. 

“We rescued her a year ago,” says Grimes, when they first got her from the Pet Adoption League. 

“She is very picky about who she associates with,” describes Grimes of Nala’s personality. “She loves kids! Being a rescue dog, you don't get to know what their life was like before but we're pretty sure the kids were nicer to her than the adults. She absolutely loves her Daddy. She goes crazy when he comes home from work and is attached to him for the rest of the night.” 

They also have other pets. 

“We have two very spoiled potbelly pigs,” laughs Grimes. “Yes, they live in the house. Yes, they go potty outside like a dog.” And they also escape. 

“My one potbelly pig is an escape artist,” she shares. “He's usually eating grass in someone's yard close by thank God.” 

As far as advice to others who lose their pets, Grimes advises to “post it everywhere you can on social media.”     

By Cheryl Conway 

Sometimes the best things come in small packages, as it is not always the quantity but rather the action and heart behind the gesture that makes it much more tremendous. 

Brittany Lanzone of Chester is a prime example of that infamous phrase. She and her two children are creating blessing bags to hand out to anyone who may need some necessities. She keeps them in her car ready to be shared at any given moment.       

It is their small gesture of help and kindness that may restore faith and hope in others, who may be faced with adversity and difficult times.   

As a single mother, Lanzone knows first-hand how challenging life can be. At the same time, she is teaching her children the lesson of kindness and altruism in helping other people.  

“I was prompted by reading the story of Jennifer Garner and how she did it,” says Lanzone.  

A parenting article featuring Garner reveals how this famous actress teaches her kids the power of giving back.   

So, a few months ago Lanzone started collecting items to create blessing bags. Each bag includes: A clean pair of thick cotton socks, a granola bar (nut free), a pack of hand sanitizer wipes, Gospel of John from the bible booklet, a leaflet from Market Street Mission or the Haven House, $10 bill, disposable toothbrush, pack of tissues, mints, ChapStick, poncho, folding brush and a water bottle. 

“I see this changing depending on what I have access to and cost,” says Lanzone regarding the contents inside her blessing bags. 

She buys the items from Amazon, Costco, BJs supplies and dollar stores. 

“We have 20 in the car in a bag,” says Lanzone. “We have not given any out yet since we have not yet driven by or seen someone in need of one.  Funny how that seems to come in spurts by how we travel and here too.” 

But they have seen people before who are struggling, and Lanzone’s kids have asked her for an explanation. 

With the blessing bags, they are ready to give back to “Anyone that is begging for money while we are in traffic, someone homeless on the street (would carry one or two in our bag if in the city) or if our heart was prompted to give one away,” she says. 

She keeps them in her car for a good reason. 

“That is typically where we come across people in need – at traffic lights etc.,” she explains. “My children always ask about what we should do or what they want.” As a single mom, Lanzone has faced her own hurdles and is perhaps the driving force behind her new venture. 

“I want to give back to someone in a way that is above and beyond just handing them some cash,” she says.  “It’s more intentional and hopefully inspires someone who receives the bag to reach out for more help.  As a single mom I have been in places where I could not afford a loaf of bread for my kids’ lunches, and yet we have always been given what we needed.  My children know that.  I want them to see that we can always give back to others, even when we are in need.”   

Lanzone is no stranger to helping others. As an interior designer operating her own business, Lanzone has volunteered for two episodes on "George to the Rescue" to help children with disabilities; at her children’s ministry; and media hosting at her church. She also volunteers at Habitat for Humanity. 

For anyone wishing to donate to help Lanzone create more blessing bags, she says she has a Venmo account:  @Brittany_Lanzone. 

“I love the idea of it being more community involved funded,” she says. 

Mt. Olive resident Danielle Fico Woelki posted on the Mt. Olive Community Facebook page about a woman and her daughter who also keep blessing bags in their car. Perhaps this kind of gesture is becoming a trend. 

“It is just a thoughtful, inspiring thing to do,” says Amy Verder, in her Facebook post. “Random acts of kindness take very little to change the life of just one person.”   

If you have a cat who suddenly scratches or bites, please do not assume the cat is "dangerous" or "vicious" and have the cat killed. Instead, take the following steps: 

1. If there is a bite, please visit a doctor or hospital right away to see if you need antibiotics. Cats have bacteria in their mouths and bite wounds can easily become infected. Also contact your local health department to let them know about the bite (the doctor will contact them anyway). The Animal Control Officer will tell you to confine the cat for 10 days to monitor its behavior and ensure it does not have rabies. This is routine. The quarantine can be done in your home and the Animal Control Officer will release the cat from quarantine at the end of 10 days if there are no signs of rabies. The law does not require that the cat be euthanized, just quarantined. For your safety and your cat's safety, please make sure your cat is vaccinated against rabies. 

2. When determining if the cat is a risk to you or others, consider the situation. Was the cat grabbed in a way that might have hurt or scared them? Was the cat cornered or caught mid-air? Was the cat in the middle of a fight with another animal or trying to get away from another animal? Did the person who was scratched or bitten inadvertently hurt or scare the cat in some other way? Like anyone, cats defend themselves when they feel threatened. This does not mean they are generally dangerous or vicious. It means that care must be taken not to scare or hurt them and, if a child is too young to understand this, that the cat and the child should be separated when unsupervised. 

3. If the bite or scratch was not obviously situational, get the cat vetted ASAP to see if they are in pain. A sudden change in behavior often indicates a medical problem that needs addressing. Tooth pain is a common culprit — imagine having a really bad toothache and not being able to tell anyone, and then someone inadvertently bumps into or presses on your mouth. Think you might react physically? We have seen an otherwise calm cat scratch a face in this situation — turned out they had a very sensitive rotten tooth that needed to be removed by a vet. Cats can have other hidden sources of pain or illness that affect their behavior as well. 

4. If the bite or scratch was not situational or due to physical pain or distress and is actually a behavioral problem, there are anti-anxiety and other psychiatric medications for cats. Gabapentin is often used to calm cats. Cats can also take Prozac. Ask your vet about prescribing one of these medications to take the edge off. We have seen these medications work miracles. Some cats also get overstimulated when being pet and nip or scratch when they've had too much. Learn your cat's body language and, if they have this issue, only pet them once or twice at a time, even if they seem to want more attention. 

5. If you cannot safely live with the cat, or do not want to, find a rescue that will take the cat. Do not assume that the rescue will act irresponsibly and adopt the cat out to someone inexperienced or someone with young children, or that they won't disclose the cat's prior behaviors. Rescues have no interest in finding inappropriate placements for animals; if they agree to take the cat, trust that they know what they're doing. If you're concerned, ask questions about their past experience, how they will handle the cat, and what they will do to figure out and address the source of the behavior. Give the rescue all of the information about what happened. Do not lie to the rescue about the cat's behavior. If the cat really cannot live in a home, there are sanctuaries. Ask the rescue if they partner with one. 

The Mt. Olive TNR Project has experience handling, working with, and finding appropriate placements for cats who have scratched or bitten in the past. If you have questions, feel free to contact us at mtolivetnr@gmail.com, (973) 804-6273. Please be aware that we only accept cats from Mt. Olive. 

The cost of living is up, but the Morris County Board of County Commissioners expects no tax increase in its recently introduced 2023 Budget for the fourth consecutive year, thanks to prudent fiscal management and a growing ratable base. 

The Morris County Commissioners will consider adoption of the 2023 Budget at their Wednesday, March 22 

“Without an increase in the tax rate, which is extremely important in these tough economic times, we are still delivering the same level of public services and even increasing funding in some key areas,” stated Commissioner Deborah Smith, chair of the Commissioners’ Budget Committee. Morris County’s continued, strong ratable growth and our prudent financial planning make this possible, despite spikes in non-discretionary expenses such as health insurance and pension costs.”  

The proposed $343.5 million spending plan for 2023 prioritizes investments in public safety, infrastructure, human services, education and training, and economic development.  Included in the budget is: $8.9 million to support the Morris County Park Commission, stewards of the largest county park system in New Jersey (20,455 acres of parkland); more than $12 million to support the County College of Morris in Randolph; almost $6.3 million to the Morris County Vocational School District; more than $800,000 for Economic Development and Tourism. 

“Public safety is paramount in this day and age, and this budget focuses heavily on Morris County’s efforts to support and augment local emergency services and to fully fund our Sheriff and Prosecutor.” said Commissioner Director John Krickus. 

The 2023 spending plan dedicates an estimated $74.6 million to public safety, which includes full dispatch services to 23 municipalities and continuing daily back-up services to local Basic Life Support and Emergency Medical Service units for all 39 Morris County towns. Morris County’s Basic Life Support Emergency Medical Service Unit responded to more than 3,866 Emergency calls in 2022. 

“The 2023 Budget also reflects our board’s continued commitment to sensible fiscal planning and the ability to help those in the midst of uncertain times by supporting the economic engine that will sustain us,” said Commissioner Christine Myers, a member of the Budget Committee. “With a proposed $60.7 million fund balance, which is a $2.8 million increase over last year, we have crafted a 2023 Budget that is intent on continuing Morris County’s AAA bond rating for a 48th consecutive year.”  

Morris County’s strategic planning also involved using American Rescue Plan Act funding for county investments, specifically to cover select capital expenses previously planned for 2023, 2024, and 2025, which will reduce the county’s future borrowing needs for necessary projects.  

Overall, the county’s 2023 Capital Spending Plan designates approximately $25.5 million toward enhancing road resurfacing, improving intersections along the 287 miles of county roadways and replacing bridges and culverts this year. Nearly $8 million in grants will offset county costs. 

Teens are invited to select free, new, or gently-used prom dresses and accessories from the popular “Sister-to-Sister Prom Shop hosted by Project Self-Sufficiency.  Formal wear including prom dresses, bridesmaids’ dresses, gowns for mothers-of-the-bride, evening bags, jewelry, wraps and shawls, as well as shoes in good condition are all available at no charge.  All items are displayed in a boutique-like setting on Project Self-Sufficiency’s Newton campus, and space is available for dresses to be tried on.  The public is invited, and no appointment is needed.

The Sister-to-Sister Prom Shop will be open March 27-March 30; and April 3-April 5, 3 p.m. – 7 p.m.; March 31 and April 6, 3 p.m.– 5 p.m.; and April 1, 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. 

“We are delighted to be offering teens the opportunity to receive beautiful gowns and accessories free of charge at the Sister-to-Sister Prom Shop,” commented Deborah Berry-Toon, executive director of Project Self-Sufficiency.  “We believe that every young woman deserves the chance to have a beautiful dress for that special, once-in-a-lifetime event.  Thanks to generous donations from the community, we are fortunate to have hundreds of beautiful items in our collection again this year.” 

Project Self-Sufficiency is located at 127 Mill Street in Newton.  The Sister-to-Sister Prom Shop is a program of the Journey Family Success Center at Project Self-Sufficiency.  For information about the Sister-to-Sister Prom Shop, or to find out more about any of the programs at Project Self-Sufficiency, call 973-940-3500 or visit www.projectselfsufficiency.org. 

Project Self-Sufficiency will soon be celebrating its 35th year of serving low-income individuals and families in northwestern New Jersey.

Services offered at Project Self-Sufficiency include high school equivalency education, computer courses, employment skills training, job placement services, support groups, parenting classes, childcare and preschool, legal assistance and education, counseling and advocacy, referrals, and help with emergency basic needs, like food and clothing.   

Rhythm India takes others on a journey of dance and celebration through Bollywood and beyond. The performance comes to Mayo Performing Arts Center in Morristown on Wednesday, March 22 at 7:30 pm.  Tickets are $29-$69.  

Experience joyous dance, vibrant costumes, dynamic music and soulful rhythms echoing heartbeats of royal palaces and sacred temples, desert villages and modern stages. 

Rhythm India was created by World Choreography Award nominee and Telly Award-winning director and choreographer Joya Kazi, whose company of dancers has been seen on screens from Bollywood to Hollywood. A choreographer, actress, dancer, educator and entrepreneur who founded her company at just 16 years old, her work has earned her a spot on the DissDash list of Coolest South Asians and Joya is featured on a public mural at the Artesia Library of Los Angeles County representing the city's South Asian influence of art and culture. She is a member of the Emmys/Television Academy, has served on the SAG (Screen Actors Guild) Awards Nominating Committee and has also served on countless judging panels including at the World Choreography Awards. Behind the camera, she represents and casts the finest South Asian dance talent and consults on productions from stage to screen worldwide. 

Mayo Performing Arts Center, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, presents a wide range of programs that entertain, enrich, and educate the diverse population of the region and enhance the economic vitality of Northern New Jersey. The 2022-2023 season is made possible, in part, by a grant the New Jersey State Council on the Arts/Department of State, a Partner Agency of the National Endowment for the Arts, as well as support received from the F.M. Kirby Foundation, The Blanche and Irving Laurie Foundation and numerous corporations, foundations and individuals. 

The Arc of Warren County Radiothon is set to be held on April 19. WRNJ Radio has graciously hosted this initiative for 33 years and continues to enable the agency to spread the news about the many services that The Arc of Warren County provides to more than 1,100 individuals and their families. This year’s goal is to raise $69,000 in recognition of the 69th anniversary of The Arc of Warren County. 

One of the many services that The Arc of Warren County provides is the Camp Warren experience for children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Part of the funds raised by this initiative supports camperships and upgrades to the Camp Warren facility, which is located on a 30-acre property in Knowlton Township. Help spread the joy of the Camp Warren experience for children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities by donating to this initiative. 

The Arc of Warren County also provides a variety of other services to the greater community, which benefit from fundraisers like Radiothon. The children enrolled in The Arc of Warren County’s Early Intervention program are receiving services which enable them to achieve their best developmental outcomes. The residents in our Community Living Arrangements programs receive quality care 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Essential services are provided to many individuals who live independently in our community. The Arc of Warren County also offers a variety of recreational and social opportunities. 

The Arc of Warren County has consistently maintained a high quality of services since its founding 69 years ago and especially over the past three years when faced with challenges related to the Covid-19 pandemic. The Arc of Warren County continues to need assistance to help maintain and improve existing services.  

The countdown to Radiothon continues until April 19. WRNJ Radio will devote the whole day to sharing stories about the impact of The Arc of Warren County’s work with individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities, from families, consumers, community leaders and employees. This initiative is a 33-year tradition that was the inspiration of longtime Arc Foundation Executive Director, Kevin Guyette, who passed away in October 2018. 

Individuals can donate through the following website page: secure.qgiv.com/event/arcradiothon2023 or through The Arc of Warren County’s main website at arcwarren.org  In addition, donors can text-to-give by typing 50155 and then a keyword of Radiothon2023 

The Arc of Warren County is seeking members of the Radiothon team to help with this initiative by contacting their friends and family to ask them for their support. In addition, any business donation of $500 or more will be considered a sponsorship.  Sponsors will be announced during the Radiothon broadcast and the company’s logo will be featured on the event leaderboard. Select businesses in Hackettstown, Phillipsburg and Washington will display donation jars on behalf of Radiothon and will be publicly thanked on WRNJ on the day of the broadcast.  

The 2023 Radiothon will be co-chaired by Jim Travis, of Otterstedt Insurance Agency, and Norman Worth, of WRNJ Radio, for the fifth consecutive year. Both Travis and Worth have advocated for the organization and individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities for more than 30 years. Travis serves on the Board of Directors for The Arc of Warren County.  Both Travis and Worth are long-time members of the Hackettstown Rotary Club and serve on the Advisory Board for Atlantic Health’s Hackettstown Medical Center. 

“The community-at-large has been so receptive to this project and that is why it has stood the test of time,” says John Whitehead, CEO of The Arc of Warren County. “I also want to express how grateful I am that Jim Travis and Norman Worth will serve as co-chairs for Radiothon for the fifth consecutive year. Their support has been instrumental in Radiothon’s success.” 

During this period leading up to Radiothon, members of the Radiothon team will be contacting their peers to encourage donating to the organization through phone calls, letters, and online giving. On April 19, the actual day of Radiothon, the Radiothon team will continue to call their friends and colleagues in the comfort of their own homes or offices to encourage them to donate. The Arc of Warren County will utilize an online giving tool starting today that will allow supporters to donate, plus share the page with individuals in their network on the arcwarren.org website. Results from the efforts will be reported on-air throughout the day of the event.  Phone pledges and donations will also be taken that day by calling (908) 223-0888. 

“It is a longstanding tradition to support The Arc of Warren County in this manner and it continues to remain important to me,” says Worth.  “Donations are appreciated in advance of Radiothon Day, as well as on the Day itself. And remember to listen in on April 19h and you will learn more about the far-reaching positive impact of this organization.” 

To support the Radiothon or become members of the Radiothon team, contact Annamaria Lalevee, Chief Development & Communication officer at The Arc of Warren County, at (908) 223-0884 or at ALalevee@arcwarren.org 

Submitted by Diane Lang, positive living expert, life coach, speaker.   

Fear can be very paralyzing for many of us. Think about everything you want to do but don't because you are afraid. Fear is a normal and natural emotion. For some, fear is a motivator. They feed off the adrenaline rush. For others, it's a very intense emotion that stops them from living the life they want. Fear can cause both physical and emotional symptoms such as anxiety, loss of control, doom and gloom, racing heart, sweating, trembling/shakes, dry mouth and chest pains. 

Fear can cause us to feel stuck and not take risks. We feel safe in our comfort zone, but the life we want includes stepping out of that zone. There is no growth without risks. To start living with uncertainty, ask yourself the three questions below. 

1. Who would you be if fear was not an issue? - I remind myself daily with my positive affirmation, "I'm fearless." My other positive affirmation is, " I trust myself and my higher power to support me through my fear." Write out your positive affirmation and repeat it daily. 

I write out the life I want and see how fear has become an obstacle in reaching that life. When we write out our goals, we have a better chance of accomplishing them (42% better). From this step, you can write out action steps to move you forward slowly. You can get an accountability partner to help you move through the fear or get help from a counselor if needed. 

2. How would your life be different - What would your life look like if fear didn't stop you? What risks would you have taken? What steps towards your goals? What would you have accomplished? 

3. If one year from now, I'm still living in fear and nothing changes, how will I feel? - This question is usually a wake-up call. The thought of living paralyzed by fear, stuck and lost for another year, can make us tip the scales towards change. The thought of living in fear, anxiety, and feeling stuck and depressed can be enough to motivate you to take baby steps toward living a fearless life.  

Remember living a fearless life doesn't mean you won't have fear (you will); it means you feel it and move forward anyway.   

For more information visit: www.dlcounseling.com or email Diane Lang at DLCounseling2014@gmail.com.  

For over half a century I have maintained an open home to shelter battered women and children. As the founder/director of www.sosdv.org  I have reached out to Governor Phil Murphy, Lt. Gov. Sheila Oliver, The New Jersey Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Center for Hope and Safety, 211 Hotline, Passaic County Social Services, and many others - seeking pathways to receive financial assistance to help others. We continue to volunteer our services often without funding. So many people say they would like to help, yet we continue to struggle and face many challenges, most of which we have been able to overcome and prevail. At present, Strengthen Our Sisters has seven houses, two licensed daycare centers, a thrift store and food pantry. Our dedicated volunteer staff works diligently around the clock to serve those in need, many of whom nobody else would take. 

We keep the lights on at an average cost of $30,000 per month, under the constant threat of shut offs. Our buildings are in constant need of renovation and repair. Transportation is also a desperate need, as we are in need of vehicles to pick up donations, transport the women and children and set up the residents in their new apartments.  

We ask that you help to make the world a better place free from violence, poverty, and homelessness. Help us break the cycle, and keep families together.  

In the struggle for a just society, 

Sandra Ramos, founder/director Strengthen Our Sisters 

 Morris County’s unique Navigating Hope mobile outreach program will be joined by an outreach specialist from the New Jersey State Department of Human Services to advance a state initiative designed to reach all uninsured children in N.J. 

The outreach specialist will try to connect with disadvantaged children under the age of 19 and their families to help educate on NJ FamilyCare, a federal and state funded health insurance program created to provide qualified N.J. residents of any age access to affordable health insurance. The outreach will include two upcoming community visits scheduled for March 21, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Dover Board of Education; and March 22, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Netcong School District.  

Since Morris County has an established outreach program through Navigating Hope, the state Human Service’s Office of New Americans asked to join their two regularly scheduled trips in their mission to travel and educate the public about the state’s Cover All Kids campaign. 

Morris County is the first county to partner with the state in the outreach effort. 

Navigating Hope, a mobile outreach initiative designed to provide social services by going into communities where the services are most needed, is a partnership between the Morris County Department of Human Services and Family Promise of Morris County. It is a complementary service to the Morris County Sheriff’s Hope One van, a novel program that provides mobile mental health and addiction services across our county. Navigating Hope offers on-site benefits eligibility screenings and application assistance, as well as linkage to other community services. 

With NJ FamilyCare, income-eligible children under 19 can receive primary and specialty care, including check-ups and other visits, eyeglasses, hospitalization, lab tests/x-rays, prescriptions, dental services, preventive screenings, vaccinations, mental health care, substance use testing and treatment, vision and hearing services, lead screening, family planning and other medically necessary services.  

For more information on the Cover All Kids initiative, visit nj.gov/CoverAllKids,  or call 1-800-701-0710 (TTY: 711). Submitted by 

Planning and Preservation Director Joe Barilla introduces the Farmland Preservation story map at the Commissioners Public Work session.  

Morris County is celebrating the 40th Anniversary of the Morris County Farmland Preservation Program by launching an interactive, online story map of all 142 farms preserved over the years, offering background information, photos and geographic data on each site. 

“We hope Morris County residents can use this story map to see the many permanently preserved farms, which ensure that agriculture will continue to flourish and contribute to the high quality of life in the Morris County,” said Joe Barilla, director of the Morris County Office of Planning and Preservation. 

The story map was created by the Office of Planning and Preservation to celebrate the 40th Anniversary of the farmland grant program, which was launched in 1983 when the Morris County Board of Chosen Freeholders, now the Board of County Commissioners, created the Morris County Agriculture Development Board (CADB).  The board was formed to oversee the preservation program, which uses grant funding to purchase development rights from willing farm owners, thereby preserving the land while allowing farmers to continue owning and operating their farms. 

The Cupo Farm, a 14-acre farm in Washington Township, was the first to be preserved on Dec. 28, 1987, and the program was initially supported through capital dollars provided in the county’s annual budget. However, following a referendum overwhelmingly approved by local voters, the Morris County Open Space & Farmland Preservation Trust Fund was approved on Dec. 22, 1992, creating a dedicated funding source for farmland preservation. The program additionally uses grants received through the New Jersey Farmland Preservation Program, which is also celebrating 40 years. 

“This has been an exceptionally successful and well-received program, with nearly $81 million being committed by Morris County, in addition to another $84 million funded by the state of New Jersey, to assist in the preservation of 142 farms since the inception of the program,” said Commissioner Stephen Shaw, the board liaison to the county Office of Planning and Preservation. 

Clydesdale horses are raised on 114 acres of preserved farmland at Wachtell Farm in Washington Towns.

From the humble beginnings of preserving the 14-acre Cupo Farm, the Morris County Farmland Preservation Program has amassed permanent conservation of more than 8,200 farm acres across Morris County. 

The farmland preservation program offers farm owners the opportunity to preserve, own, and maintain their farms with autonomy. Beyond preserving land, the program has preserved farming lifestyles, a heritage of agriculture in Morris County, conservation efforts and the future prospects for a variety of agricultural operations to continue. 

The story map provides visitors a glimpse into the success of the program as well as the diverse beauty of Morris County agriculture and all it stands for: honoring sectors such as vegetable, fruit, livestock, equine, dairy, hay, grain, and greenhouse operations and conservation. 

“It is not just about preserving land; it is also preserving a way of life,” said Shaw. “With this program, the farmland remains in private ownership. Many of these farms would not be able to survive as farms if not for this program.”   

Information about the farmland preservation process can be found here. If you are interested in preserving your farm, please contact Katherine Coyle in the Office of Planning & Preservation at  kcoyle@co.morris.nj.us. 

 Wildlife biologist Jonathan Slaght, author of the award-winning book “Owls of the Eastern Ice"  

The Legacy Project's Signature Series at County College of Morris (CCM) in Randolph returns this spring semester with exciting events that are open to the community. 

On Wednesday, April 19, at 7 p.m. on Zoom, the Legacy Project will welcome New York Times best-selling author and journalist David K. Randall of Montclair. He will answer questions about his two most recent books: "The Monster's Bones: The Discovery of T. Rex and How It Shook Our World" and "Black Death at the Golden Gate: The Race to Save America from the Bubonic Plague." 

Finally, on Thursday, April 27, at 7 p.m., the Legacy Project will be joined by best-selling author and wildlife biologist Jonathan Slaght, author of the award-winning book "Owls of the Eastern Ice" for a Zoom presentation on his work. Slaght is the Russia and Northeast Asia coordinator for the Wildlife Conservation Society, where he manages research projects on endangered species. 

As described, Slaght in his presentation “takes us to the Primorye region of Eastern Russia, where we join a small team for late-night monitoring missions, on mad dashes across thawing rivers, drink vodka with mystics, hermits, and scientists, and listen to fireside tales of Amur tigers. Most captivating of all are the fish owls themselves: careful hunters, devoted parents, singers of eerie duets, and irrepressible survivors in a harsh and shrinking habitat.” 

"We are beyond excited to welcome these three distinguished guests to the Legacy Project's Signature Series,” says Professor Samantha Gigliotti, Biology & Chemistry, co-director of the Legacy Project. “Whether it's history, biology, journalism or sociology, the subjects that the Legacy Project explores are varied, diverse and speak to our academic mission to teach the community about the many 'legacies' one can find in the world." 

Each session is free and open to the public. RSVP to legacy@ccm.edu for a Zoom link for Randall and Slaght or directions to Sheffield Hall for Keegan. 

The Legacy Project is an ongoing speaker series at CCM that presents a variety of programming on important topics. Over the years, the project has held events on civil rights, genocide, Hurricane Katrina, war and peace and climate change.  

The works of prominent Cuban-American artist Edel Rodriguez is on display at the County College of Morris (CCM) Art Gallery in Randolph. 

The exhibition, titled “Apocalypso,” opens closes April 6.  

“Apocalypso” is a very appropriate title, says Brian Sahotsky, Art Gallery director and professor, Art & Design. “The direct but playful conversation between the words apocalypse and calypso inform a flashpoint of contemporary socio-political discourse. Calypso will likely bring to mind the sounds of rhythmic vocals and colorful dances, a music style rooted in Caribbean identity and an inherent multi-culturalism.” 

He adds, “Notable is the fact that apocalypse derives from the Greek work for a revelation. The works by Edel Rodriguez function as precisely this type of revelation, in essence, revealing the complicated overlays of Cuban-American identity, complete with themes of tides (cyclical and reliable elements) and undercurrents (mercurial and sometimes calamitous events).” 

Rodriguez was born in Havana in 1971. He was raised in El Gabriel, a small farm town surrounded by tobacco and sugar cane fields. In 1980, Rodriguez and his family boarded a boat during the Mariel boat lift and settled in Miami. For the first time, Rodriguez was introduced to and influenced by American pop culture. Inspired by personal history, religious rituals, politics, memory and nostalgia, his bold, figurative works are an examination of identity, cultural displacement and mortality. 

The work in this exhibition is a collection of paintings, drawings and published material that examine the tides and undercurrents which have led to present-day cultural and political moment. Themes of war, migration and unsettling extremism are mixed with poignant personal reflections in graphic, colorful and, at times, controversial imagery. 

The CCM Art Gallery is located inside the Sherman H. Masten Learning Resource Center on CCM’s campus. Gallery hours are Mondays through Saturdays, from 9 a.m. - 6 p.m. 

Since the pandemic has provided more flexibility in learning, County College of Morris (CCM) in Randolph provides multiple opportunities to take classes on campus or online from home and even while traveling or on vacation.   

With more than 100 programs including certificates, associate degrees and professional development courses, CCM partners to start a career or build upon an existing one, so get a jump start this summer. It’s an easy and convenient way to earn credits from a nationally ranked community college.  

Summer Sessions registration has begun. A variety of opportunities, ranging in length – five, seven and 10 weeks long – give the flexibility to finish quickly. Classes are offered in-person on CCM’s campus in Randolph, as well as online and in hybrid formats providing flexibility to fit courses into a busy summer schedule.    

Summer Sessions 2023 Open to Everyone  

Summer Sessions are open to current CCM students, college students visiting from other colleges and universities and new students. Students new to CCM first need to apply for admission. Sessions offered this summer are as follows:   

• Early 5 Week: May 22 – June 26  

• 10 Week: May 23 – August 1  

• Late 5 Week: June 27– August 1  

• 7 Week: June 28 – August 15  

Fall Semester 2023 Registration. Start Now.   

Registration for the Fall Semester begins April 3. Start the application for admission now to provide time to explore programs, days and times. Fall Semester classes begin August 31.   

Assistance to Help Pay for College  

Each year CCM awards approximately $26 million in financial aid and scholarships to its students allowing them to pursue a high-quality education with little to no debt. New Jersey students may be eligible for a discount or a tuition-free education. For more information about how to finance your education visit CCM’s Financial Aid Office online at www.ccm.edu/admissions/financialaid/.  

Dr. Kenneth Kuntz 

Centenary University’s School of Education and Humanities plans to host a literacy conference for educators entitled, Spring into Joyful Literacy Instruction: Research-based best practices to invigorate your literacy instruction and enhance student motivation. The event is set for Thursday, April 21, from 8:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. in the University’s David and Carol Lackland Center. Prior events have had approximately 150 registrants, so early registration by March 30 is recommended.
Sponsored by the Centenary University Master of Education in Literacy Instruction Program, this year’s keynote address will feature Dr. Kenneth Kunz, president of the International Literacy Association. Kunz will address how the sciences of reading/research align with joyful literacy instruction. Through his experiences as a literacy coach and International Literacy Association leader, Kunz will share tips for prioritizing joy while balancing the demands of a comprehensive literacy program.  According to the International Literacy Association (2023), the mission of the organization is to “connect research and practice to improve the quality of literacy learning across the globe in ways that are respectful, responsive, and ethical. We advocate for equitable access to literacies among individuals of all ages and diverse communities as a basic human right and a matter of social justice.”Director of Centenary University’s Master of Education in Literacy Instruction Program Dr. Lexis McCoy adds, “This conference focuses on topics that are at the heart of many conversations in education at the moment. I am proud Centenary University can offer experiences like this where educators can come together to gain knowledge and enhance their practice based on contemporary research from internationally distinguished organizations. That is the purpose of our School of Education and Humanities, and it is a fine example of what Centenary offers to the Skylands Region.”Centenary University’s School of Education and Humanities is a leader in bachelor’s degree programs in teacher preparation, as well as studies in English, history and mathematics. The graduate education programs feature master’s and doctoral level degrees.  The University’s Master of Education in Literacy Instruction Program is recognized by theRegistration for the literacy conference is $99, which includes lunch. The event is open to all K-12 educators, support staff, administrators, coaches, and curriculum directors from public and private schools. Register at https://centu.org/literacy-pr23. Questions can be directed to: Lexis.McCoy@CentenaryUniversity.edu 

Centenary University in Hackettstown has opened applications for The Grace Y. Bissett and Louise Monez Hill Scholarship, a full four-year award for students who are dedicated to pursuing a career that improves race relations. The Bissett-Hill Scholarship covers the cost of attendance at Centenary University, including tuition and fees, room and board, books, transportation, travel, and miscellaneous expenses. The university will award this scholarship, which is renewable annually for a maximum of four years, to a student beginning classes in fall 2023. 

“This will be the second Bissett-Hill Scholarship awarded to a highly qualified student to attend Centenary University, with all expenses paid,” said Dr.  Robert L. Miller, vice president of enrollment management. “The recipient will join last year’s Bissett-Hill scholar in receiving an outstanding Centenary University education and preparing to make a real difference in the world.”  

Last year, Centenary awarded its inaugural Grace Y. Bissett and Louise Monez Hill Scholarship to Zaria Moore of Perth Amboy, NJ. A business management major with a minor in marketing, Moore is a 2022 graduate of Perth Amboy High School, where she ranked in the top third of her graduating class. She participated in a number of activities dedicated to strengthening race relations as a member of the black and brown community, including working with a local performing arts program to present the journey of racism through a dance performance at Middlesex County College. 

Aa a first-year student at Centenary, Moore has helped to facilitate programs to improve race relations on campus, including diversity conversations on colorism, events celebrating Hispanic Heritage Month and Black History Month, and preliminary planning for a mural near the university’s campus, a collaboration between Centenary University and Hackettstown. She has also participated in Open House events for prospective Centenary students. 

The Grace Y. Bissett and Louise Monez Hill Scholarship Fund was established through an estate gift from Centenary University alumna Louise M. Hill ’40 in memory of her aunt, Grace Y. Bissett, who made her education possible. In her bequest, Hill specified that the scholarship be dedicated to supporting students with “a sincere interest and intention to pursue a career in teaching, religion, social work, or the like” to improve race relations.  

Applicants for the Bissett-Hill Scholarship must be admitted to Centenary for the fall 2023 semester. For the best chance of being selected, applicants should submit  materials before April 1. For more information about the scholarship, go to https://bit.ly/Bissett-HillScholarship