“How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes.” ~Maya Angelou
Just 10 days away from Memorial Day and the stage is just about set for the 2024 Remembrance Day Ceremony at the All Veterans Memorial in Budd Lake.
Set for Monday, May 27, at 10 a.m., the itinerary includes a dedication and raising of the new Space Force Flag, unveiling of the new Forever Young Monument and the Lest We Forget Monument, presentation of memorial stones, and an expected heartfelt keynote speech by a Goldstar Mother.
To capture it all from start to finish will be CBR Media Productions in Woodland Park, which “will turn this extraordinary event into our very own documentary about the AVM and our amazing volunteers, our fallen warriors and their families and all of you who understand the price that has been paid for our freedom,” stated AVM Founder Charlie Wood Uhrmann.
To kick off the day at the 7 a.m. sunrise, Fr. Joseph A. Cassidy of Council 6100 Knights of Columbus plans to dedicate the new Space Force Flag Pole. One of the six military flags, the Space Force Flag represents the United States Space Force as well as its subsidiary units and formations. The Knights of Columbus will be raising all of the military flags.
“We had previously donated the other six flag poles in the memorial, one for each branch of the Armed Services,” shares Grand Knight Dan Fuller of Budd Lake. “Having this memorial in our town is a privilege and provides an opportunity to those who have served to know they are not forgotten.”
Officially unveiled by President Donald J. Trump on May 15, 2020, in the Oval Office, the Space Force Flag will now complete the 10 flags displayed at the AVM.
“As soon as the Space Force officially became a U.S. military branch of service, it is proper protocol for military complexes who display the U.S. Military Service Flags to add the new branch to their complex as soon as possible,” explains Uhrmann.
Forever Young Monument
First Lt. Sara Vasso will give the opening remarks and invocation at 10:15 a.m. during the AVM dedication of the new Military Child, Children of War and War Against Children Forever Young Monument.
The Military Child, Children of War and War Against Children element idea grew out of a suggestion by Peg Schultz of Andover, chapter regent of the Morristown Daughters of the American Revolution in October 2022. Schultz shared a personal story with Uhrmann and the significance of the dandelion and military children.
“The dandelion was chosen as the official flower for the military brat because the plant can take root and flourish practically anywhere the wind blows its seeds,” Schultz explains to Uhrmann. “The hardest question for most military brats to answer, including myself, is ‘where are you from?’”
Uhrmann adapted the idea and sketched her vision of The Military Child, Children of War and War Against Children, to represent the three stages of the dandelion; the poppy; and the daisy.
The dandelion will represent the resilient life stages of the military child; a red poppy will represent “the life of our fallen warriors; the memory of children, all children, our children during war,” she shares. “And the daisy symbolizes the innocence and purity and new beginnings for children, “all children,” caught up in life’s many battles.
“Though the symbolism of each flower represents the many challenges and life consequences that is inflicted on our children, I chose to design an element that would invoke a sense of peace, faith and beauty,” adds Uhrmann.
Uhrmann had hand-picked Timothy Sheldon of Lafayette, owner of Wicked Workz metal to create the sculpted monument based on her sketch. Familiar with his skill, Sheldon had sculpted the POW/MIA Ascension Bell Tower at the AVM.
After 120 hours and a year of planning, the $9,500, 6 ft. wide and high steel sculpture is just about ready for its unveiling at the AVM’s Prayer Garden. The element will be surrounded by hand-painted stones by the community’s hands.
Rev. Karen Gazzillo will recite A Blessing for the Children.
Keynote Speaker
Emotions may be touched when Goldstar Mother Charlene Cosgrove Bowie of Ledgewood gives the keynote speech about The Ultimate Sacrifice and her personal heartbreaking story of losing her son 18 years ago.
Cosgrove-Bowie prepared her own speech about “The sacrifices a military family, including a child, must endure whether the member is deployed or not and I will share a bit about my son Lance Cpl. Chris Cosgrove III and how his story of wanting to join the military is very similar to many other stories of our fallen service members. Their desire, from a young age to step up and protect our country.”
A 2001 graduate of Whippany Park High School, Chris Cosgrove grew up in Cedar Knolls and had a desire to join the marines. He attended Monmouth University, majoring in history, and during his junior year attended boot camp at Camp Lejeune. After graduating in 2005, he pursued further training at Camp Geiger. Intent on becoming a police officer, he got engaged in October 2005 and volunteered for deployment to Iraq in January 2006. Tragically, he was killed by a suicide bomber in Fallujah on October 1, 2006, just weeks before he was due to return home. He was 23 years old.
As president of Legacy Of A Hero The L/Cpl. Chris Cosgrove III Foundation, Inc., a 501c3 non-profit organization she cofounded in 2007, she assists active duty military, veterans and first responders and their families who are in need.
Uhrmann invited the New Jersey Gold Star Mothers and families to this year's special ceremony. Each family will be presented with a bouquet of flowers and a special gift.
Lest We Forget Monument
A silent prayer will be given by Gazzillo for the Lest We Forget Monument.
The monument’s purpose is to honor and remember the 13 U.S. service members who lost their lives Aug. 26, 2021 at the Hamid Karzai International Airport Kabul, Afghanistan.
“We are the first Veteran organization, to formally by the way of a monument, that honors them,” says Uhrmann.
Designed and concepted by Uhrmann, this new monument will also be fully funded by her. Its base will be 4’ x 2’, with two dog tags 29” x 19” made from 16g hot rolled steel, she describes. The dog tags will include the names of the 13 fallen soldiers.
This element will be placed on the left side near the entrance of the Prayer Garden.
Scouts Do Their Part
Garrett Vanni of Strasburg, Pa. will be singing the National Anthem on behalf of the Boy Scouts of America Troop 85 as an Eagle Scout.
This will be his fifth year singing the country’s song at the AVM’s ceremonies.
“I agree to do this event every year because I feel it is my duty as an American citizen, to uphold the values of this country, and to honor all those who fought for our freedom on the land, in the air, and on the sea, around the world and here at home,” says Vanni. “Although singing the National Anthem is a very small part in this awe-inspiring ceremony, it is one of the many symbols of this country I love and so many love. I hope for the sound of the National Anthem to once again unify this country and help us remember all of those who fought and continue to fight for everyone around the world."
Meanwhile, the Mt. Olive Girl Scouts and Scouts of America will present the memorial stones.
With several workshops held with the support of Home Depot in Hackettstown, Uhrmann is expecting more than a 1,000 rocks hand-painted by the community, students and even seniors.
The rocks will be placed at and around the Prayer Garden and Military Child Monument as ground covering.
About 85 third graders from Sandshore Elementary School in Budd Lake along with third grade teacher Devon Marques painted their rocks on Tuesday, March 26, at the school’s workshop.
The colorful rocks were different shapes and sizes and feature colorful poppies and daisies.
The Mt. Olive Middle School sixth graders grabbed their paint brushes on Monday, April 15, to paint their rocks.
MOMS Principal Agatha Wilke and sixth grade School Counselor Julie Kester facilitated this workshop along with retired MOMS Teachers Ann Greszczak and Hazel Whelan.
“There is no deadline to add your custom rock,” explains Uhrmann. “Anyone can place a painted rock at the memorial site anytime. It is an open campaign that will give various local organizations an opportunity to teach their members about sacrifice and freedom.”
Uhrmann chose rocks as part of her landscape because “Rocks are not only durable but will complement the rock foundation or base of the Military Child Monument.”
There are no restrictions to the flower design.
Those interested in painting rocks can call 973-479-4959 to schedule.
Like the rocks’ workshops, the AVM Remembrance Day Ceremony is expected to bring the community together. Uhrmann is expecting about 400 people.
“This is the day we pay homage to all those who didn’t come home. This is not Veteran’s Day, it’s not a celebration, it is a day of solemn contemplation over the cost of freedom.” ~Tamra Bolton